My friend's wife wears homely nighties around the house that are somewhat transparent, especially in summer and monsoon and summer, when she perspires. Her undergarments and body become clearly visible... and this is a turn-on for all of us who drop in on weekends. Recently, I asked my friend about this and found that even he was turned on when his wife did this. At first, she seemed to do it without knowing how it appeared to us. But nowadays, we even tease her about her undergarments, and she takes it sportingly... so she isn't so innocent!
Re: Transparent clothes in the house are a turn-on
by preity saha on Oct 03, 2008 04:40 PM Permalink
I think you must talk to your friend and if he getting excited about you guys are getting aroused seeing his wife in transparent gowns then you guys must proposed him to go for threesum/foursum.
Re: Re: Transparent clothes in the house are a turn-on
by preity saha on Oct 03, 2008 04:42 PM Permalink
My dear preiti does you like it and if yes,does your husband will okay it?
Sex is a primary need of all life forms oon this earth. When you are thirsty you reach for a glass of water, when hungry you have food, when sleepy you tend to sleep. similarly sex is one of the biological needs of human kind. But I strongly disagree about communicating your sexual needs. Rather you must connect emotionally with your partner. But throughout the world and more so in India we talk about pleasure, needs, sin, taboo, etc in the same breath which is a fair amount of hypocricy. I know things will remain like this probably till the last of mankind, but some tolerance will come in when both sexes shed their inhibitions to a great extent. We, as adults, have sex in the dark because we dont like to be seen naked by anyone and not because we are ashamed of having sex. I would say premarital sex is not a good idea not because of moral reasons but because of dreadful and contagious diseases. Similarly extra marital sex also carries the same risks. Remember God gave us pleasure in sex so that we can procreate. if the pleasure was not in the equation I dont think anybody will ever have sex.
Re: celebacy the best option
by pk k on Oct 03, 2008 01:58 PM Permalink
Shaheen ji a veg may think that veg food is the best bcos he has not tated non veg. ..Just an e.g... U may change ur mind if u knew what is on the other side of celebacy. At 31 it's not too late. AND I MAY ALSO HELP U OUT. what say?
Re: celebacy the best option
by lover on Oct 03, 2008 02:34 PM Permalink
To elevate yourself spiritually, celibacy is a must, which is of course very difficult to practise. Only mentally enlightened people and whose soul is tuned to spiritual enlightenment only can practise that. Of course, this truth cannot be understood by many people, being ordinary mortals with limited mind capabilities.
Re: celebacy the best option
by Sudipto Basu on Oct 03, 2008 02:38 PM Permalink
Some one atleast is doing something towards the population problem of the country or the planet,jokes apart if that was the 'BEST' option there would not be any diffrence between earth and the other cold lifeless planets in the solar world
Re: celebacy the best option
by lover on Oct 03, 2008 02:40 PM Permalink
As i already told, it is very difficult to practise. Somewhere someone alone can do it.
Re: celebacy the best option
by lover on Oct 03, 2008 02:44 PM Permalink
The maya of the lord is such that it makes it difficult for ordinary mortals (who are maximum )to practise it. Otherwise how the world will function - lord's leela is that
D.Goel Pkl. afternoon, 1.20pm, Friday, Oct. 3, 2008. It is true that sexual mates do have their other's needs,to look after, that are perhaps are not easy to reconcile. For differential requirements. For instance man do often get Orgasm when he licks lady's Vagina or bites off her oozy bosom or penetrates her from her posteriors.Lady may desire just wishes to be caressed softly or refuses to do oral sex.It is always a matter of touch and go. Often instead of orgasm unhappiness to one or the other or both results,this can be done by affectionate passage of sharing concerns...D. Goel
Re: Communication in sexual relations are crucial
by RightSaid Fred on Oct 03, 2008 02:53 PM Permalink
Goel, I think you're one of those Ghaziabad quacks. What have you donw about your own ED and swarm of VD that you have?
Re: Communication in sexual relations are crucial
by nitin chopra on Oct 03, 2008 02:33 PM Permalink
Mr Divye Goel..ur preferences have been revealed...
Dear friends, The subject of sex, since birth is the product of sexual act, it is as important as life to carry our generation forward. we do everything but we shy or avoiding to discuss in group or in public. when children in general asking about about t.v. ad. of female napkins, generally we avoid or this is not ur things we reply. this is how we treat sex. this is enough today to start with this board.
Re: SEX > SUBJECT TO DISCUSS
by Sujit Das on Oct 03, 2008 02:39 PM Permalink
before start sex, dont forget to check whether ur baby sleeps or not, otherwise u have to face new question next morning
