D.Goel Pkl. afternoon, 1.20pm, Friday, Oct. 3, 2008. It is true that sexual mates do have their other's needs,to look after, that are perhaps are not easy to reconcile. For differential requirements. For instance man do often get Orgasm when he licks lady's Vagina or bites off her oozy bosom or penetrates her from her posteriors.Lady may desire just wishes to be caressed softly or refuses to do oral sex.It is always a matter of touch and go. Often instead of orgasm unhappiness to one or the other or both results,this can be done by affectionate passage of sharing concerns...D. Goel