Sex is a primary need of all life forms oon this earth. When you are thirsty you reach for a glass of water, when hungry you have food, when sleepy you tend to sleep. similarly sex is one of the biological needs of human kind. But I strongly disagree about communicating your sexual needs. Rather you must connect emotionally with your partner. But throughout the world and more so in India we talk about pleasure, needs, sin, taboo, etc in the same breath which is a fair amount of hypocricy. I know things will remain like this probably till the last of mankind, but some tolerance will come in when both sexes shed their inhibitions to a great extent. We, as adults, have sex in the dark because we dont like to be seen naked by anyone and not because we are ashamed of having sex. I would say premarital sex is not a good idea not because of moral reasons but because of dreadful and contagious diseases. Similarly extra marital sex also carries the same risks. Remember God gave us pleasure in sex so that we can procreate. if the pleasure was not in the equation I dont think anybody will ever have sex.
