Dear Friend! I agree whole heartedly with each and every sentiment of yours. Ask me what a broken heart is...as I am nursing one nowadays. I am told repeatedly by all and sundry to go out n enjoy myself with one night stands and throwaway encounters all the while, as since I am a divorcee, hence I am mad to expect a relationship to happen to me along the way...somehow I am just not able to. I was aware of all these feelings of resistance of mine but you have articulated them so aptly and so beautifully that I just could not help but write to you my affrmation. I wish you all the very best...may you find your dreams come true. Regards. Ayesha.
RE:I agree!
by jaya on Aug 01, 2006 07:27 AM Permalink
you know what its true, india is not yet ready for "one night stand" coz so called indian men prefer virgin & only marry the one mom agrees on. so indian women is left either heartbroken after a long romance or lie to husband about virginity!!
well all those says its old fashion & wanted to look liberal - only one question :-
1. will u marry a non-virgin 2. wll u accept a gal whom u r sleeping with as your wife, if you mom does not like her family house or dowry!! 3. will u marry single mother or divorced
get modern at brain level before commenting on sex before marriage. i think author is perfect in her thouhts & its mt advice to all gals - don't fall for idiots!!
& for ayesha - i guess divorce is still a strong decision in indian society , i hope you get your true love soon.
RE:I agree!
by Jack on Aug 01, 2006 10:03 AM Permalink
I have already posted my article in reply. But I found your reply worth replying. You are a person who understands the article better I suppose. But don't worry, God teaches us a lot of lessons while we are here. I'm sure He's the only hope that we have. Try to find out more about what is God's wish in your life. All commit mistakes. The Bible says there's no one who can say, "I'm without sin". So don't feel depressed for what has happened, but ask God to lead you to what He's planned for you. Best wishes.
RE:I agree!
by bhupendra patil on Aug 01, 2006 03:09 PM Permalink
Hi, AYESHA, My deepest sympathy is with you. I am not going to ask you about broken hart beacause i had allready gon throguh it.thanku for wishing all the best.
