Dear Friend! I agree whole heartedly with each and every sentiment of yours. Ask me what a broken heart is...as I am nursing one nowadays. I am told repeatedly by all and sundry to go out n enjoy myself with one night stands and throwaway encounters all the while, as since I am a divorcee, hence I am mad to expect a relationship to happen to me along the way...somehow I am just not able to. I was aware of all these feelings of resistance of mine but you have articulated them so aptly and so beautifully that I just could not help but write to you my affrmation. I wish you all the very best...may you find your dreams come true. Regards. Ayesha.