Me n my girl have been together...were together for 3 years...a week ago today everything was fine and i was in heaven...then a week ago tomorrow she said we needed to talk....she simply came over and said she didn't love me anymore and wanted to experience being single again...trouble is we have a baby together...and i love her so damn much, i been getting all kinds of advice this past week...stay strong, keep your head up...but all from ppl who haven't experienced what i'm going through...shes not my life, shes a part...nah man, she is my life...i cant deal with this, she always told me she loved me more than anything in this world and that shed never leave me or hurt me, now i have to go through this...i cry constantly, the smallest thing reminds me of her, i cant even control my tears in public, somethingll remind me of her n i break down in tears...when we talk now shes always finding a way to get mad at me, to yell at me n bring me down more, even now i cry tears for her, just typing this thinking bout her, i define love as not being able to live without someone, and i love her, i cant live without her, i just wanna go away and die somewhere, yet shes doin fine its killing me
RE:Heartbreak
by kim on Aug 30, 2006 04:45 AM Permalink
hi, although it seems that she doesnt care and shes perfectly a-ok, she obviously does still care. she has a child with you so that means that she will have her/his best intrests in mind and she would want to have you as their father. although im only young, i have found out that drastic measure of even talking about not wanting to be here will only make the situation worse. you need to show her that u can get your life on track and if the only role u can play in her life is the father to her child, thats better than nothing and it is giving you a litle bit of hope.
RE:Heartbreak
by KIESHA on Oct 20, 2006 02:40 AM Permalink
Hi Darryl, I know what you are going through.Tolove someone that much and to feel like she just ripped your heart out. I even know about her anger towards you even when she was the one to end things.My husband talks to me very angry, he curses at me and says hurtful things.At first this confused and hurt me it still does because I had given him my all for over half my life. Please don't say things like you want to die even though I know what you mean because I have said the same thing. When ever you feel like that please pray. Prayer can and will change things. Also don't give her the satisfaction of seeing you hurt or sad or angry I feel like at this point that gives them some twisted sort of satisfaction and she will even try at some poilnt to use this to her advantage.She will go out and do her thang and when things go bad for her she will run back to you because she knows you love her and will do anything to have her back.Trust me when I tell you that will make her worse.She will begin to go in and out of your relationship because she will use your love to take her back.Then BEST advise I got was from my Aunt she told me to let my husband golet her go & she will come backright
