I strongly feel men must be the PRIMARY bread winners for the family , women must be PRIMARILY HOMEMAKERS. If women feel they have EXTRA time after serving husband and talking care of kids they can work. Carrier oriented women 90% fail in family life.
this is the fact
Men must muster courage and must sharpen their skills to earn money and run families single handedly, the day they sent women to work and enjoyeed their extra money that day gave way to these many problems
women understand -u are not designed to work like men and ur designed to be a homemaker. first take care of ur home then others.
Men its ur duty to earn and feed the family so do ur duty and love ur women.
only 10% or fewer marrages can survive when a women is carrier oriented, and in those 10% men will be dummy and the kids call HIM mummy.
RE:man = mummy lole
by godblessusa on Aug 03, 2007 02:07 AM Permalink
RE:man = mummy lole by mr on Aug 03, 2007 01:21 AM But when the lights turned off, they should sleep in separate bed too. ========================
Why u ahole don't u do it with lights on??? haaa afraid she might find out ur 1/2 inch pp
RE:man = mummy lole
by New Yorker on Aug 03, 2007 01:29 AM Permalink
I completely disagree. Lot of men are not as hard working and after a while forgets career; looks out for comfort and other women. Then to maintain the family needs/expenses, these homemaker ladies wander out for jobs.
Time has changed whether in WEST-no more cowboys comes back with their kills (some in Utah still does this with their many wives) or like Talibans wanted to do -bring bread and goat home after a hard days of fighting and enjoy their wives.
Now we should look for role of women as we want our daughters to face in the next generation, otherwise they will have the same painful fate.
RE:man = mummy lole
by aconcernedreader on Aug 03, 2007 01:55 AM Permalink
stop delivering sermons to women about what they should and shouldn't do. What happens to a woman when her husband abandons her or is disabled or dies - then the woman is left to fend for herself - how will she manage when she isnt economically dependent. As for you sir, please learn how to spell career before you ask men to make one and women to leave theirs.
RE:man = mummy lole
by joshua joseph on Aug 03, 2007 02:28 AM Permalink
Dear all -I CAN UNDERSTAND a women must be willing and be prepared to work and earn in case somthing happens to the husband and this becomes her duty for her home, its different form her carrer preference -just negleting her home responsiblities under the pretex of carrer and job is not good -women pls understand this and open ur mouth here, ask urselves did u do ur duty as a wife and as a mum then think abt working and carrer
RE:RE:man = mummy lole
by aconcernedreader on Aug 03, 2007 05:11 AM Permalink
There are tens of thousands of women in India supporting their families by working hard. At the same time they are also taking care of their husband and children. As inflation hits the roof, its becoming more important that both the man and the wife work. That way the children can get the best education and not be denied anything for lack of money. However, people are only seeing the negatives of women in the workplace and noone is appreciating how hard a woman has to work to achieve a work-life balance. As for the man, he thinks his job is done once he comes back from work. Why cant a man accept his responsibility towards the house as well? India is now undergoing a period of transition. The old man of the house stereotype has to go if marital discord has to be resolved. Men too have to do their share of household chores. Please stop living in this day and age with a mentality that belongs to the 1950s.
RE:man = mummy lole
by joshua joseph on Aug 03, 2007 02:21 AM Permalink
I was telling women must think abt home first then career but its ulta now women think abt career and forget home which is pathatic and u call this negligence of duty as independence
I know a Indian guy in Sun Microsystems, who after getting couple of technology patents under his belt also got a divorce from his Indian wife- reason as I came to know via pals in booze parties. He came home very late, was very moody, hardly talked someday, had wild sex sometimes, and most of time had ED problem-poor Jon stressed out.
Then one day, a close friend of his reported seeing his wife with another man in a mall in Bay Area. She has to cool her fire for she is more liberated being in IT and has tasted it all. Next, he started software surveillance in his home pc%u2026recorded lot of goodies conversations...
Finally D-Day came with lot of anger and tears.
Bottom line... she should understand his weakness, problems, timings and most of all committed to her man and he should understand her needs, be nice after coming home, give her time too...or else its painful.
Also stress makes IT man weak. Additionally they don't exercise. Time to follow Swami Ramdev!!
This lady is sick, yes I understand it is part of the relationship, but it is not all. Todays Marriage has lost its meaning. It is only for material gain. Guys/Girls marry to make a good bank balance, double the property ! ... as though it is some business deal !
Now a days boys and girls are more bended towards sex in there life. Many of them makes this relations in the name of affairs or boy/girl friend. Some time they think having a boy/gal friend is the symbol of status. This kind of relation are not true love and are based on just some other factors. So if they were not able to get married, you can imagine what a bad marriage they would be in. If they some how get married also then things changes a lot becuase of reality of life.
I feel this treand is also becuase of the Mordern life style young person are following.
I strongly feel men must be the PRIMARY bread winners for the family , women must be PRIMARILY HOMEMAKERS. If women feel they have EXTRA time after serving husband and talking care of kids they can work. Carrier oriented women 90% fail in family life.
this is the fact
Men must muster courage and must sharpen their skills to earn money and run families single handedly, the day they sent women to work and enjoyeed their extra money that day gave way to these many problems
women understand -u are not designed to work like men and ur designed to be a homemaker. first take care of ur home then others.
Men its ur duty to earn and feed the family so do ur duty and love ur women.
only 10% or fewer marrages can survive when a women is carrier oriented, and in those 10% men will be dummy and the kids call HIM mummy.
It's upto the Individual whether you need career oriented woman or a homemaker. After all we are earning money for a good life. I am an IT Guy and I would prefer a homemaker.
RE:Upto the Individual
by iq on Aug 03, 2007 01:01 AM Permalink
In other words, a sex slave/servant. For a change I want to marry a guy who can be a homemaker. How about that?
RE:Upto the Individual
by Ravi Sastry on Aug 03, 2007 01:40 AM Permalink
its because of the attitude of b*i*tche*es like iq..bangalore is getting rotten. what wrong did the guy mention in the post...its just that you got filth in ur head, u started thinking of sex, slave and servent. dont worry...u will eventually end being all of them.
