I know a Indian guy in Sun Microsystems, who after getting couple of technology patents under his belt also got a divorce from his Indian wife- reason as I came to know via pals in booze parties. He came home very late, was very moody, hardly talked someday, had wild sex sometimes, and most of time had ED problem-poor Jon stressed out.
Then one day, a close friend of his reported seeing his wife with another man in a mall in Bay Area. She has to cool her fire for she is more liberated being in IT and has tasted it all. Next, he started software surveillance in his home pc%u2026recorded lot of goodies conversations...
Finally D-Day came with lot of anger and tears.
Bottom line... she should understand his weakness, problems, timings and most of all committed to her man and he should understand her needs, be nice after coming home, give her time too...or else its painful.
Also stress makes IT man weak. Additionally they don't exercise. Time to follow Swami Ramdev!!