i really don't understand why are we talking about women dress code in india why can't in US or Europe or some other Asian Countries? Indian men are characterless? why can't women can dress whatever she wants to wear...? I thin western men are better then Indian men at least they don't h arras whatever women wants can wear... control yourself men and give some freedom to women too... or don't respect from your heart don't be hypocrite...
I those students should be rusticated from colleges permanently & simultaneously their names should be blacklisted so that they connot pollute other colleges alo after taking re-admission. I think,at the same time anti-ragging law should be dealt in more brutally to create panic amongst raggers.
Girls misuse the freedom by exposing their bodies. Our culture is going to dogs.By mcopying the west, we live a life of animals. For argument sake girls may say that how they dress is their concern.But it is not good for the society around. Except the Muslin religious Leaders no other religious seem to be bothered about the culture. The result is sexual harassment harracement and the like. Only God should save our culture.
RE:Girls are the culprits
by kishore jogadia on Dec 20, 2007 05:44 PM Permalink
On what base you are saying that muslim religious leaders are bothered to save culture and not other religous. can you clarify? If your point is muslim leader insist on burqa than i can tell you that many illicit relations are merrying in this veil
RE:Girls are the culprits
by Vir on Dec 20, 2007 04:14 PM Permalink
Indian Culture?? All bullshit!!! India is full of hypocrites like you ppl, who would love to do all the nasty/unethical things behind the doors, but when it comes to accepting that in open, you ppl start your bull shit culture commentary and if you are so fond of Muslim Religion, why don't you get converted....
RE:Girls are the culprits
by kabir ahmed on Dec 20, 2007 04:17 PM Permalink
Yes ONLY God can save our culture. thats y He ordered the women to wear a Burqa(includes covering face) which u ppl call oppression/supression/depression/backward...........Grow Up......... Embrace Islam.........
RE:RE:Girls are the culprits
by kishore jogadia on Dec 20, 2007 05:33 PM Permalink
Burqa can cover(she's) face but the unscruplous activity done under the burqa who will come to know? I mean married women can bindass meet to her boyfriend under disguise, how one can stop this activity????????
RE:Girls are the culprits
by srikanth kurma on Dec 20, 2007 04:36 PM Permalink
shame on u guys making a social problem in to a religious problem.grow up guys think on the measures to eradicate sexual harrasment on girls not on the religious culture.
RE:Girls are the culprits
by Vir on Dec 20, 2007 04:41 PM Permalink
Thank you sir, for your valuable sugestion, but i was just replying to the religious point unnecessarily raised by my dear friend....
RE:Girls are the culprits
by Vir on Dec 20, 2007 04:31 PM Permalink
I respect your religion but so do i respect other religions, so that doesn't mean that i shud embrace each and every religions
this statistics is funny...61% has been harassed? had it been like, 61% are not virgins i wud have accepted.. harassed? what were they doing until they were harassed? Obviously it would Not have happened without their permission(except very few cases)
I did not carry out any bench marking but couple of years back carried out a study with various college students in india.Findings are as follows. The most aggressive students indulge in ragging comes from 1111* studied in noncoed school(only boyes))2222* does not have young sister/s 3333* Disturbed family life due to quarrel in the family 4444* Easy life style from affluent parentage . 5555 Broken home 666* long suffering meek life style during school days. To reduce ragging the out going students should be exposed to clinacal Psychologist attending regular classes for at least one year before leaving the school. Parents in home must make their sons understand the prestige of their family,, Girls joining college should not unnecessarily brand a male student as "BAD & Bully" & avoiding their company. Friendly terms should be established soon joining the college, In case matters go out of control the condition must be reported to college union secretery , Educaton head and also bring it to parents notice.
Sex is part of life. There is nothing like harassment. It is the natural of reaction on liking by other sex, resulted - in unliking by other sex. Presently the boys are more scared than girls. Unlike the olden days, boys are not liking to have more than one girl friend, but girls are different in this habit. Very worst cultural habit. Finally, we are going to hear that this one of the AIDS country in the world.Though now itself it is alarming. Sex is part of life and not everything in life. Mind it.ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
RE:Sex is part of life
by kishore jogadia on Dec 20, 2007 05:38 PM Permalink
If one female doesnt like intercourse with the person who dislikes than it should be consider harassment definiety - Agreed sex is a part of life - but not like an savage animal doing on Animal Planet, Discovery or National Geographic channel
Like the author has mentioned, the coonotation of harrassment changes from places to places, circumstances and time.A mere glance, a slightly off-colour remark may be treated as sexual harrassment under a particular situation while kissing passionately full mouth in public places is a sense of modern living in few other places. And not only boys or revealing dresses of girls are to be blamed, it may happen under normal circumstances. I live in Hyderabad and the other day when I slowed my bike in a little dark area opposite to a garment's showroom on posh Banjara Hills Road No.1, an autorickshaw stopped near me and two girls riding that auto, simply asked me if I am ready to take them for the night. So where is the problem? I feel the copy-cat movie producers and directors copy the western culture without any sense and as the male adrenalin is always on the higher side, men tend to take the filmy scenes for real-life drama and they too expect the same from others. We need a total reform on this subject.
RE:It's a mindset that need to be changed
by shailesh Arban on Dec 20, 2007 03:34 PM Permalink
Ya it's realy happening all colleges in mumbai. There is must to known the girls openion on that issue. Shailesh Arban
Sexual harassment of any person are prohibited because it is intimidating, is an abuse of power and further, is inconsistent with College/company policies, practices and management philosophy. Sexual harassment is defined as unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favours and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature. Sexual harassment can include the following :-
a) Sexual conduct that interferes with another person's work performance or creates an intimidating hostile or an offensive work environment.
b) Personnel decisions (eg. promotion, raise, scheduling made by a supervisor based on employee's submission to or rejection of sexual advances.
c) Submission to a sexual advance used as a condition on keeping or getting a job, whether expressed in explicit or implicit terms.
India is progressing and imitating culture of western countries like fashin shows . Fashion shows are popular for girls body show. when a male looks private parts of the girls openly,definately boys will have to do their busniess. what are u talking about harrassment ?
