The world today seems to be jetfast - so how how can relationships remain without its impact? Hence be it office,market or college or even schools, dating has become a fashion - hence there is nothing wrong if it is at workplace. Today it is a matter of convenience! Nobody wants to endure, cultivate and nurture the sapling of relationship into a matured tree. Gone are the days when it used to take even upto six months in knowing the name of the female/residence/college, one has focussed his attention on. Hanging on Bus stand/locating a less frequented phone booth( for getting a glimpse/phoning)used to take a heavy toll. So if separation appeared imminent,Both used to fight it out together - because the foundations of relationship were well endured. Someone has rightly said," Love at first sight, usually ends at first slight" Shouldn't we try for lasting relationship (be at office or elsewhere)??????????
I think if u choose colleage it will be better as comapre to anyone else see as compare to other girls u can spend more time with u r colleage not any new girl . go for it
It is better to choose girl in office it self. any how u will spend more then 9 hours in office it self. and u will be knowing when both will be free and then u can spend each other
Its natural to get attracted to the opposite sex, be it anywhere. Nevertheless the fact remains that it does dilute your focus on your job, especially if in creative field. While entering the office, its 'Duty First' any given day at any given time.
Therefore, I do agree that its ok if you date your co-worker after office hours only if you are determined not to carry the same to your desk.
dating a colleague, or even being in a relationship with one , i believe , is not detrimental to the workings of the office, IF the priorities about work and leisure are clearly outlined in the minds of both people involved..it is expected, in a professional setup, that work comes first., and relationship issues do not interfere with productivity..of course this looks like an ideal situation-one that almost never does happen, but i think i can say with a fairly certain amount of confidence that it IS possible...
I dont know who gave the companies the right to object to marriages within the organization. Can colleges disallow marriage between collegemates thinking about grades etc? Who is this company to decide on anyone's lie partner or even date for that matter. Tomorrow they will decide that even having lunch together by colleagues is disallowed!!! If dating is allowed then it doesnt matter whether the date is a colleague or otherwise. Also, if someone can fall in love, there is no way u can prevent him/her falling in love with a colleague. Imagine a resignation that reads "I am in love witha colleague and as per company rules it prevents me from falling in love with a colleague. So I hereby resign my position as .... "
You spend a quality time in office ,other words you can say more then half of your best time.In office we faces a lot of stresses and problems,You need a person in office where you can share your heart with them,it not only makes you feel better but also gives energy to work with new zeal. Exact Dating is not required but a true friend is very much in demand in office.
I will call it "Its not a Bad Idea". I dated to my colleague for one year before marrying. We both were in the same department of an MNC. We worked together for an year on the same projects and that was the time when we have realised that we both can go along together. After proposing to each other we took another one year to get married. I think thats gave us a lot of time to understand each other well , as we used to spend a quality time together. But offcourse nobody in the company was knowing about our affair untill we declared it after fixing the marriage date. We ourselves have decided that we will not work together after marriage in the same dept, as some or other time you will be forced to do some favor to your spouse which may or may not be liked by others. Since our bosses were good and helpful they agreed to change the dept after the marriage. we worked in the same company for two more years after marriage and there was no problem as far as work was concern. Its becomes a problem only if anyone has to switch the job in another city and even when your bosses takes advantage of this situation during apprisal time keeping in mind that none of us will leave the company.
