I Think you are creating and expanding your own rules.These millions of pepople are fool and you are only who thinks that it is right, who ever go beyond the nature came back down heavily. Its a natural phenomenon dont try to disturb it.If you think that it is right make it yourself dont expect others to follow you. pkverma
RE:TOPIC
by Jack on Aug 01, 2006 10:11 AM Permalink
Its usually very difficult to accept criticism, and that's what has happened here. Instead of trying to think if we were really wrong, we start criticising the one who tries to correct. As I've already mentioned in my reply to the article, the one who is in favour of sex before marriage now, will surely reach a stage in life when he/she will realize what a wrong decision it was. Remember for every deed of yours now, you are accountable later. Don't think that we can escape with it. That time the outer world may not know what you are undergoing, but you, within yourself will surely know. Hope you understand it before its too late...
iam agree with the views of author because we should have sex only after marriage before marriage it s ocmpletely wrong you should have to be loyal for that man who aceept you bfore the society not whom who is feared ok
RE:Healing your heart.....
by Ajay on Aug 01, 2006 11:12 AM Permalink
Why you feel down when you know someone has cheated you or made you dowm becuase of his own dirt or impurities.First of all you must understnad this that whosoever does wrong to some one gets back same from mother nature with compount interest.As we basically are imortals has come to this earth to find out our real self i.e our puriest form of goodness.
So get this feeling out from your self and move in the right direction of finding your self with the hepl of satguru.If some has played with yourthis physical body then he will have to come agian in women body to expereince the pain and agony passed on to a women body.So never feel bad for others misdeeds infact you see your inner self which is still untocuhed and so pure and your ageless friend is sitting inside you to take you to his final abode of love and purity.
Also you know this body will die one day hence with that you will move in another body if you haven't find yourself .So why to cry or feel ba d and down or expect some human to give you comforts .Pls see and meet your self you yourslef are complete universe. As far as women are considered they should come back to higher status of 'Devi" i.e higher purity level.
Agree with author but .......
by rajesh on Jul 31, 2006 09:11 PM Permalink
I strongly agree with the author statements ,,,"sex before marraige" should not be appreciated,ofcourse,then there is no need for marriage if we indulge in pre-marital sex.But when come to commited couples or lovers it is depends on their wish.
Dear Friend! I agree whole heartedly with each and every sentiment of yours. Ask me what a broken heart is...as I am nursing one nowadays. I am told repeatedly by all and sundry to go out n enjoy myself with one night stands and throwaway encounters all the while, as since I am a divorcee, hence I am mad to expect a relationship to happen to me along the way...somehow I am just not able to. I was aware of all these feelings of resistance of mine but you have articulated them so aptly and so beautifully that I just could not help but write to you my affrmation. I wish you all the very best...may you find your dreams come true. Regards. Ayesha.
RE:I agree!
by jaya on Aug 01, 2006 07:27 AM Permalink
you know what its true, india is not yet ready for "one night stand" coz so called indian men prefer virgin & only marry the one mom agrees on. so indian women is left either heartbroken after a long romance or lie to husband about virginity!!
well all those says its old fashion & wanted to look liberal - only one question :-
1. will u marry a non-virgin 2. wll u accept a gal whom u r sleeping with as your wife, if you mom does not like her family house or dowry!! 3. will u marry single mother or divorced
get modern at brain level before commenting on sex before marriage. i think author is perfect in her thouhts & its mt advice to all gals - don't fall for idiots!!
& for ayesha - i guess divorce is still a strong decision in indian society , i hope you get your true love soon.
RE:I agree!
by Jack on Aug 01, 2006 10:03 AM Permalink
I have already posted my article in reply. But I found your reply worth replying. You are a person who understands the article better I suppose. But don't worry, God teaches us a lot of lessons while we are here. I'm sure He's the only hope that we have. Try to find out more about what is God's wish in your life. All commit mistakes. The Bible says there's no one who can say, "I'm without sin". So don't feel depressed for what has happened, but ask God to lead you to what He's planned for you. Best wishes.
RE:I agree!
by bhupendra patil on Aug 01, 2006 03:09 PM Permalink
Hi, AYESHA, My deepest sympathy is with you. I am not going to ask you about broken hart beacause i had allready gon throguh it.thanku for wishing all the best.
Sex is matter of personal choice but yes if its just for the sake of satisfying our biological need then its sex only, in other case if its culmination of our emotions and desires into a comple unison of mind body and soul then its love. only love makes sex a joy being married or not is immaterial .
So Beautiful!! I ve been more often than not thrown similar suggestions to indulge in 'you know what'.. But somehow have never been able to get myself to give into to it. And i ve always been at loss of words for my weird 'behaviour'!! lol. But reading your article has given me all the answers that has been brewing in my mind for a long time. Thank you... I shall quote from your article henceforth :-)
RE:No sex please..I m single!!
by Aarti on Aug 01, 2006 11:11 AM Permalink
I guess, you haven't understood her point of view and unlike her, you seems to be the odd one out of this world. She is just trying to tell her perceptions and not forcing anyone to accept what she is saying or trying to be the cynosure.
May be you will be happy in your weird world and others might not be.
The writer wants the readers to think she is the odd girl out in this bad world and is not aware of existing culture these days! Also, its hard to digest the fact that someone had to tell her the way these flings or one night stands works! Well, may be she needs some sympathy or want of some xtra media hype! This is just a gimmick! She is 30 years and talks like a primitive stepping into a new unknown world!
RE:No sex please! I'm single
by Anil on Aug 01, 2006 09:10 AM Permalink
YOu obviously have not understood what she is trying to say....she openly said that one night stands etc are not part of her agenda...she never said she did not know what it is..a media gimmick???? what's with you?
