RE:Aise beti, beti nahi, daian hai daian
by Ruchi Mathur on Nov 06, 2007 12:38 AM Permalink
Apni pasand ke ladke se shaadi kari...kya galat kiya ladki ne? U shud be ashamed to be saying this.
RE:Aise beti, beti nahi, daian hai daian
by Ravi Kumar on Nov 06, 2007 12:47 AM Permalink
Look at the history Ruchi,
Any marriage without social acceptance/tolerance (At least acceptance of both the families) will not succeed. May it be the religion, region, language, money, what ever.
RE:Aise beti, beti nahi, daian hai daian
by Ruchi Mathur on Nov 06, 2007 01:00 AM Permalink
Their are inter-religion marriages.Rizwanur was planning to buy another house for her. If he was living there was a possibility tht their marriage cud have survived. But they killed him.
RE:RE:Aise beti, beti nahi, daian hai daian
by Ravi Kumar on Nov 06, 2007 01:14 AM Permalink
Again primary school thinking. how do you know all this? Just because it was written so in the media?
Based on what ever story I read so far, I am convinced that he comitted suicide and wasn't murdered.
RE:Aise beti, beti nahi, daian hai daian
by ryan sats on Nov 06, 2007 01:27 AM Permalink
Mrs Ruchi, inter caste marriages are common now when both husband and wife work in similar situations. usually in same/similar computer companies banks etc....the variation is not as much as Rs 200 crores (Imminent inheritance...todi only has 2 daughters) vurses a 15,000 Rs monthly salary (as computer TUTOR). Clearly the girl was not 'love at first sight' but more of 'love of money at first sight'. More over ask yourselves this question: If your daughter marries the opposite religion and someone not even of near social standing..(Riz was a BA in English) will you give your daughter gladly in marriage. Thousands of years of Islamic persecution on Hindus in India have made the remaining Hindus very wary of Beef eating muslim grooms for their daughters. There are cases where they agree when they are Lost and have no alternative like Todi had neither money or govt employee support. Grow up lady..These are not fairy tale marriages..Many ladies like you do have love marriages but they are smart to marry Engineers and well off grooms not Bus conductors or computer tutors....I bet if you were in Todi shoes and your daugther marries a slum dweller with a BA in English....I would shower my admiration if you would bless the couple...
