I strongly feel men must be the PRIMARY bread winners for the family , women must be PRIMARILY HOMEMAKERS. If women feel they have EXTRA time after serving husband and talking care of kids they can work. Carrier oriented women 90% fail in family life.
this is the fact
Men must muster courage and must sharpen their skills to earn money and run families single handedly, the day they sent women to work and enjoyeed their extra money that day gave way to these many problems
women understand -u are not designed to work like men and ur designed to be a homemaker. first take care of ur home then others.
Men its ur duty to earn and feed the family so do ur duty and love ur women.
RE:When man fails
by RamRamRam on Aug 03, 2007 12:14 AM Permalink
Very Well said. Women does not understand the difference between Real Freedom and Financial Freedom (Western Freedom). A Real Freedom is the one earned through better understanding with your spouse. A Financial Freedom is the one attained through higher education and work which may not yield good result when both are working.....
The India Modern Girls are brainwashed by western fanatics life style.
RE:RE:When man fails
by mr on Aug 03, 2007 12:22 AM Permalink
Think from your sisters point of view, you know the answer, now tell me? is it good girls educated or not.
RE:When man fails
by on Aug 03, 2007 12:23 AM Permalink
this is my two cents. You may consider me old-fashioned but go for a match where the girl likes you without knowing what u r. In other words, go for an arranged marriage. If you are an IT guy, you don't have shortage of money. Go for a non-career oriented but educated girl. You will do wonders.
Even if you go for a love marriage, make sure you understand the expectations of your fiancee. Things change once you marry. Go for a girl who likes you unconditionally
RE:When man fails
by Garima on Aug 03, 2007 01:01 AM Permalink
Mr. Joshua,
I am a working career oriented woman. And I have a wonderful husband who totally supports my career. We have been married for 5 years, and are very happy.
Anyway, my point is that you should not be close minded - somebody may not subscribe to your thinking, but still be perfectly happy. A marriage takes two to tango, both have to adjust. However,if you really think a woman should not work, then you should marry a girl who will stay at home - just make sure you have a great life insurance policy :-)
RE:When man fails
by priyanka singh on Aug 03, 2007 12:41 AM Permalink
You know what Joshua. You are totally wrong. Men are not the only bread winners. Infact there are men who are turning into full time dads and wives earning for the family. In my case me and my husband are from IT and he earns more than me but it is his choice of deciding to be a full time dad for few years. He is very supportive. Helps equally at home like sharing cooking, cleaning etc. Also he made me do my masters in US and used to be at college late nights and he used to be there to pick me up at right time. We have always managed to take out time and go for dinners, outings etc. Infact we try to pass all our free time together and we are so into this relationship that sometimes we dont feel the need of any friends. AND I am proud to say that my husband was ready to commit to me as I was to him. We both have made adjustments in life. And any successful marrigae needs the support of both husbnad and wife and not alone of wife. So better you guys understand this and try figuring to handle things and help your wives handle life if they at some points are failing to do so. Good luck to all.
