I am a working career oriented woman. And I have a wonderful husband who totally supports my career. We have been married for 5 years, and are very happy.
Anyway, my point is that you should not be close minded - somebody may not subscribe to your thinking, but still be perfectly happy. A marriage takes two to tango, both have to adjust. However,if you really think a woman should not work, then you should marry a girl who will stay at home - just make sure you have a great life insurance policy :-)