Guys, I am an IT guy and i am in love with an IT girl, we are getting married shortly. I am scared after reading this. Please advice me how to live a successful married life.
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by on Aug 03, 2007 12:22 AM Permalink
Guys, When someone is asking for some advice, please don't make fun. Rahul, this is my two cents. You may consider me old-fashioned but go for a match where the girl likes you without knowing what u r. In other words, go for an arranged marriage. If you are an IT guy, you don't have shortage of money. Go for a non-career oriented but educated girl. You will do wonders.
Even if you go for a love marriage, make sure you understand the expectations of your fiancee. Things change once you marry. Go for a girl who likes you unconditionally
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by iq on Aug 03, 2007 12:16 AM Permalink
Stay trim, dont put on wait after eating your newly married wife cooking. Go to gym 3 days a week atleast. Brush your teeth before you make love.
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by aconcernedreader on Aug 03, 2007 12:32 AM Permalink
Rahul The key to a good marriage irrespective is where you work is time. The IT companies in India expect you to dedicate their lives to them-but remember your company wont stand by you when you are old, when you are frail and when you need them most. Please treat your family as your number 1 priority and take time out to enjoy life. Dont think putting in long hours is the only way to rise-if you are truly productive you can finish work early and go home early. If however your company forces you to work like a slave..then quit. Its not worth slogging at the expense of your family.
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by RamRamRam on Aug 03, 2007 12:48 AM Permalink
Wish you best of luck on your marriage. Choose the one from below which is good for you.
Working Spouse -------------- 1. You will have lot of money. 2. Tend to eat outside most of the time, which is not good for health. 3. No one to take care when both of you are tired after work. 4. Fights will end up bitterness as both of you not have patience after long working hours. 5.Your kids will go to day care and may not learn good habits, may loose family culture.
When you wife do not work ------------------------- 1. Limited amount of money 2. You do not spend un-necessarliy 3. Home made food with love always which is good for health. 4. Your wife will care you a lot, particularly when you worn out from office. 5. Will give nice advise and guide you in all ways of life. 6. Better Relation-ship and understanding as she is dependent on you. You should not misuse this. 7. You wife will not prolong any fight that may come. She will give up at the moment of fight and tell you what is your mistake at a later time. 8. You wife takes care of kids. She will nurture them with Family values. 9. Your wife will take care of your Parents too.
Dependency creates the need be togather all time. You are dependent on your wife abd your wife will be dependent on you.
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by mr on Aug 03, 2007 12:13 AM Permalink
Understand your wife & give respect & take respect & enjoy. You will see lot of wonders. This Mr. has experience with a Mrs. Mr. So, do this please.
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by priya james on Aug 03, 2007 12:36 AM Permalink
hi rahul as a married woman, this is my advice. share all responsiblities. do not think cooking, cleaning, washing is her job. always have bed coffee and dinner together, no matter how busy you guys are. talk to each other. weekends... strictly no work for both. encouarge at least one hobby. this WILL work.
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by kumar on Aug 03, 2007 12:53 PM Permalink
It%u2019s Not the Size of the Dog in the Fight, It%u2019s the Size of the Fight in the Dog...
ofcourse 2 inch is definetly a no no! five inches is normal
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by iq on Aug 03, 2007 12:12 AM Permalink
Where is your wife? Trust me... only the married men are interested in IT women for some fun. This is the truth
