I am a doctor working in UK, who graduated from Bangalore. I have many software professionals and doctors as my friends from all over India. I could sense the uneasiness among the professionals especially from Tamilnadu, when they interact with their opposite sex.I WILL BLAME ENTIRELY ON THE COLLEGES AND SCHOOLS, they studied for this.There are many colleges in Tamilnadu, who restrict interaction between boys and girls and wearing modern dress. Many Engineering colleges, named among the top ranking private colleges do this. DO YOU KNOW THE RESULT: Tamilian professionals' confidence goes down, when it comes to dressing in the western countries.Well..I hope all the engineers will aspire to go to other countries atleast on short visits.They are more hesitant and less convincing when they have to interact with their opposite sex. These things will seriously undermine their confidence. We need to realise that we are not limited to just our state, we get to meet so many people from other states and other countries. Sadly none of our guys know Hindi..our official language. I was shamed here, when I could not respond to her back in Hindi, by my English consultant. Let's get smart pls...
RE:Let's make good professionals
by Satheesh on Oct 14, 2005 02:35 AM Permalink
That was good suggestion to allow ppl to interact...gals and boys.
Don't u think u miss a point completely. How long will u bend urself to satisfy the other ppl? Use ur own dresses and codes and u will feel a lot confident...it is only when u act like the other u loose confidence. We sud also have a belief in our tradition and culture.
It is a good thing to learn a language, be it Hindi or whatever...but it is ridiculous to claim that we have learn all the languages as the world is becoming a global village. Try to learn a language...or hire one who cud do that. Afterall language is just for communication and our time is too short.
