That was good suggestion to allow ppl to interact...gals and boys.
Don't u think u miss a point completely. How long will u bend urself to satisfy the other ppl? Use ur own dresses and codes and u will feel a lot confident...it is only when u act like the other u loose confidence. We sud also have a belief in our tradition and culture.
It is a good thing to learn a language, be it Hindi or whatever...but it is ridiculous to claim that we have learn all the languages as the world is becoming a global village. Try to learn a language...or hire one who cud do that. Afterall language is just for communication and our time is too short.