Thank You Mrs Ruby Banerjea & Ms. Sreoshy, Truly if you are looking for materialistic pleasures, India is not a place to be. but if you want to get love, affection, satisfaction, sprituality, then i think india is a best place to be...
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by DS on May 23, 2008 10:24 AM Permalink
i read your comments and couldn't agree more man. so spot on. when will us Indians stop trying to pretend that we have the best culture in the world. Unless of course by culture we mean corruption, inadequate life style, psycophant mentality, red-tapism, castism and all the other evils, integral part of our society.
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by vicky rajput on May 23, 2008 10:22 AM Permalink
tis is india dude... your concern is of no use... this all will continue for ever.. one or two ppl cant ever change all this..... regards
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by DS on May 23, 2008 10:32 AM Permalink
why can't we, one or two, bring the change? as far as i can see, our younger generation is brimming with ideas to break the shackles that have long kept hold on our society. Let's be strong, rational and not sentimental to get rid of all the negatives plaguing our society.
Sometimes I feel that this attitude that "I alone can't change anything so I may as well become part of the crowd" is the biggest difference between developed and developing societies.
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by chetan on May 23, 2008 10:06 AM Permalink
Well Mr. Jaichand I dont know yor true name but seems like you got some problem with india.All the faults you are trying show exist in every country in more or less amount (Noplace is haven).In fact crimes like sireal killer and sexual slevary are more hidiouse in western country.Point is inspite of these problems indian culture gives you hope and motivation to be positive (We dont go on depression therapy immidiately).I know things are not very delighting but they are much better then imidiatly after independence.There are anti social elements (like you) and out side forces that trying to destebalise this country but it is only culture of this country which has given strength to stand that pressure and keep working for progress of every one.
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by DS on May 23, 2008 10:29 AM Permalink
you are so cluelss. Jaichand hit the nail right in the head. When will we Indians leave this attitude of being better spiritually than the world when indeed we have one of the most stratafied, corrupt, uneducated and poor society. I mean visible doesn't need evidence. can't you see that our complacent attitude has cost us so much when in reality we could have been lot better had we risen to the challenge instead of being complacent and inactive.
Talking about depression, the definition of depression itself is different in both the countries. A small psychological problem which we Indians wouldn't even notice could be counted as depression. And it is far better to recognize the problem and fix it than not recognizing it and pretending that there is no problem. In the long term, the earlier approach far outperforms the other one.
Smell the coffee. It is good to be satisfied but bad to be ignorant and oblivious to the better things in life and world.
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by arvind on May 23, 2008 11:01 AM Permalink
hello jaichand, do you know yoga or hare rama hare krishna mission, it is known as spirutuality i think? have you heard about the progress of development in india? if not just go through it. even with so many draw backs what you mentioned it is developing well. people thinking like you are getting benefits from here (like getting educated in iit's or medical institutes or investing money which there forefathers earned while living in india) and going and settling in foreign.
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by vipin nayyar on May 23, 2008 11:18 AM Permalink
What love and affection you are talking about? Why any body sends their daughter to India where women has been raped every minute, people are fighting with each other on religious basis, where God's man are caught ith pronographic CDs, go to public offices where bribe is asked as a fundamental right,Have you ever visited Sales Tax Office in Delhi, where an officer was caught red handed but reinstated because they went on strike together, a bunch of corrupt people can take the political leadership to ransom. What Politicians are doing, dividing people , hindu, muslim, Jat, Gujjar, Rajput, for their vote bank
