Both of us are working and are used to it now. But i call up my husband atleast 2 twice a day, from office. when we meet at 9 in the night, almost exhausted, atleast a few days, we see a movie together for 10 minutes, share our experiences and have dinner together. Most of the time, it is direct to bed after dinner and in no time, both sleep. It will be difficult in the first few days of marriage, later everyone will get used to it. Middle class couples, also don't have money for an expensive outing. So be contended with your imbalanced life, where work place and family, compete for your time.
But is it not difficult for you to manage your social life???
How would you enjoy your sex with partner? or you do only on weekends?? What about life after having kids?? Kids wont grow in few days?? (If parents are not with you who will take care and tell them MORALS?)
RE:balance work-life
by Rupesh Bawa on Jun 11, 2008 12:25 PM Permalink
Hello Mrs. Shenoy,
Do you want to "LIVE" the life to the fullest or you want just to exist on planet earth ... wats your priority ? .... In one of earlier replies, I mentioned it, I repeat it for you ...
97% of people on this planet do not have choice but to go for work to get the food on table .... right .... its really pathetic situation ....
I would like to ask only ONE question to all , is "WHAT IS YOUR PRIORITY, "FAMILY" OR "WORK" ? "
most of the ppl are not aware of there is something also available on this planet earth, but it is hidden" only 0.1% ppl know it" ... i found it so that i can spend the quality time with my family ...
It seeems to be a MASTER PLAN .... that I can change your life ....
RE:balance work-life
by YASAR IMRAN on Jun 09, 2008 12:05 PM Permalink
Dear Mrs. Smitha, Good to read your working schedule and your husband, as you both earn for future and your coming generation. The question remains, after marraige, can it be possible to have kids or regularly delaying, thinking of next year and next and time passes, as it happened in UK. A UK women rose from Secretary to Managing Director, but no children now (both Husband and Wife is 55 years old). This news of published by UK based newspaper. My request only to you, do not spoil your married life, if you do not have kids till now, you should plan and bring them in this world and it would be good for your future.
