Both of us are working and are used to it now. But i call up my husband atleast 2 twice a day, from office. when we meet at 9 in the night, almost exhausted, atleast a few days, we see a movie together for 10 minutes, share our experiences and have dinner together. Most of the time, it is direct to bed after dinner and in no time, both sleep. It will be difficult in the first few days of marriage, later everyone will get used to it. Middle class couples, also don't have money for an expensive outing. So be contended with your imbalanced life, where work place and family, compete for your time.