So many smart people making so many dumb mistakes and also repeating the same again n again n again. So many Gurus making those smart citizens pay for their pain. Why can't we open our eyes to common sense and make that an integral part of our lives?! All sorts of relationship issues would vaporize if and only if we follow one policy, "Once an appetizer, always an appetizer." For example, I'm a typical urban Bangalorean IT professional and have been an appetizer to many men. While choosing a man for marriage, I'll simply go for one who has been an appetizer to many women. But we girls do the opposite, i.e, we exhaust our fun with many men but while marrying we always go for a man who is faithful and loyal. And then all hell breaks lose. Common sense, why can't we use n apply that??!! What goes around, comes around, right?
I appreciate your attitude to life, but in life what you must get is what you deserve...but unfortunately you only get what you dish out as rightly pointed out by you.
I think its a wonderful idea to be an appetiser to the opposite sex, infact in today's circumstances its more of the norm than the exception...and a better way of knowing the opposite sex.
Idea is wonderful, in perspective of men only. But another side of coin is dark. And we want both sides shining of coin to make home a lovely place. There is no space for deepa like girls in that.