So many smart people making so many dumb mistakes and also repeating the same again n again n again. So many Gurus making those smart citizens pay for their pain. Why can't we open our eyes to common sense and make that an integral part of our lives?! All sorts of relationship issues would vaporize if and only if we follow one policy, "Once an appetizer, always an appetizer." For example, I'm a typical urban Bangalorean IT professional and have been an appetizer to many men. While choosing a man for marriage, I'll simply go for one who has been an appetizer to many women. But we girls do the opposite, i.e, we exhaust our fun with many men but while marrying we always go for a man who is faithful and loyal. And then all hell breaks lose. Common sense, why can't we use n apply that??!! What goes around, comes around, right?