I believe the autor has got it all wrong. Let me ask one thing," Why is it so important to have a career?" If you say self-confidence and indepenence, well then after 60 do both of them go for a six? Or is it that housewives lack them completely. You work so that you can earn for yourself and your family. If there is no family all the money earning will lose significance. Well, I don't include here the utterly selfish, self-centered and workaholic types. The problem is that we have attached too much importance to money, more than what is justified. And compromise is when you leave something higher for a lower thing. Sacrifice is its opposite. If you can't give your whole time to your baby, better not have them. It is easy to give instructions: don't listen to tantrum etc etc. But ask any parent how practical is it? Life doesn't works in the manner as pointed out in the last passage of the report. Life is lived in phases. If you think now is the time for you to work, then work. But when you decide to have a baby, please let your child be the only priority, your only work.
RE:Utterly a worng idea
by Sweta on Apr 13, 2006 03:05 PM Permalink
Rohit u r utterly sick- a typical conservative man who considers a woman as a doormat only.
Instead of giving such high funda philosophy y don't u do it urself? U leave ur career & raise ur kid. The child is the responsibility of both the parents.
It is because of male chauvinist pigs like u dat working moms face so many probs in their lives.
RE:RE:Utterly a worng idea
by on Jun 16, 2007 12:45 PM Permalink
I agree 100% with Sweta. career is definitely important as family. yuor kid will be proud of you when they grow up and look up to you as their role models. Independence, confidence, money and contacts are all at the end of the day for our children. I am thankful to God for gifting me a hubby who's a better parent than me and he loves to do almost everything that i do for my 20 month old baby daughter.Tehy make a great team, play, eat and sleep together.Well, he works mostly during the nights.He inspires me to move up the ladder of success and IS THE MAN BHIND MY SUCCESS and smile. While at work, I'm not worrying. He not only takes care of my girl, but packs my breakfast does not demand service from me and men like Rohit should learn something from him. Husbands are thats why called "BETTER HALF". Together we can and we will build a home with love.laughter and of course lots of money so that our kidz can have a great life ahead.
RE:RE:Utterly a worng idea
by rahul on Feb 14, 2007 05:45 PM Permalink
I think you had a very bad experience, that is the reason for using filthy language. This is not the way you speak against men. Not all men are the same. What would be your reaction when we say that females are blah blah blah.. You need to resolve your personal issues at your residence and not in public.
