Your article has made me feel that as my thoughts are moulded into words. I completely agree with you. I have heard many times from my friends that I am conservative in thoughts or an old fashioned person as I do not believe in having affairs and want to with a single man with whom I will tie knot.Sometimes, I face the question of not having a boyfriend but still having a modern approach.
It is not necessary to have an affair just because you want to follow fashion or trend. I think it has become a trend to get into a relationship without commitment and to think how broad minded we are. Live in relationship is a burning example. The affair which is started just for fun may shatter the rest of life. Recently the divorces have increased due to lack of mutual trust of partners primarily because of their past affairs.
I congratulate you for putting your thoughts and looking forward for other articles too.
RE:That's True
by Arun on Aug 02, 2006 02:33 PM Permalink
Hi Pooja,
Though not very surprised by the views expressed by most of you'll, I just have a question to ask - what is so special in the signing of a marriage register or walking around a fire 7 times that makes sex alright? And the question there is not of sex but submission, which, I think, is the point. But is there any form of guarantee that a marriage will last? But what has that got to do with sex? Actually nothing - bu its just our take on our value systems, which is / should be the crux of our discussions.
Divorces have nothing to do with sex; its just got to do with each individual's tolerance level
