Though not very surprised by the views expressed by most of you'll, I just have a question to ask - what is so special in the signing of a marriage register or walking around a fire 7 times that makes sex alright? And the question there is not of sex but submission, which, I think, is the point. But is there any form of guarantee that a marriage will last? But what has that got to do with sex? Actually nothing - bu its just our take on our value systems, which is / should be the crux of our discussions.
Divorces have nothing to do with sex; its just got to do with each individual's tolerance level