The fact that this article got so many responses establishes that 'Sex sells' In INdia, around the world, wherever. As for "keeping yourself" till marriage, i think its completely an individual's point of view. You say a relationship/commitment is a must, but who defines what a relationship is. For Girl A, who met a guy on day 1, freidnship just clicked with him. She went out with him on a date on day 3 and slept with him on day 5. For you, this may be morally/ethically, or whatever wrong. For her, she thinks its a relationship and is comfortable with the guy and sees a future with him, may not be marriage, but a relationship. And please guys, keep God out of this! What has religion got to do with sex? And by the way, "keeping yourself" should mean not hugging anybody else too, not even shaking hands. Why not? Be a COMPLETE virgin, if you have to! In fact, by just "keeping" your sexual virginity, you are being sexual, thinking sexual, indicating that sex is dirty or special or something. Its just a process, a journey you share with whoever you are comfortable with as friend, as lover, as fiance, as husband as whatever. Saying NO! adamantly indicates immaturity just as desperati
RE:For God's sake!
by Sushim on Aug 02, 2006 07:49 PM Permalink
it is fine yaar...that you had sex with already fifteen girls being single....but just think the other way...that your would be girlfriend/wife would be coming from the same background...and if someone gets the joy of promiscuity..it is really difficult to control/stop her...neither would you be able to trust her fully....ever.... now you would say that what is wrong if she has it too....or you don't care whatever she had before...man...sex is not only physical...the same fact would haunt you that your wife loves and cares so many people too as many she had sex with....that is a feeling....from which there is no escape....there is nothing special in having premarital sex...you can have it by paying money only....or going out with girls/boys like that....but the after effect is very terrible...when you get partner...you can never trust her totally....and that would give you a tremendous loneliness...make you feel constantly cheated.....which you can share with none....that's why people go for chastity...it is by choice that single people don't go for premarital sex...it is not lack of option which people like you think....
