The fact that this article got so many responses establishes that 'Sex sells' In INdia, around the world, wherever. As for "keeping yourself" till marriage, i think its completely an individual's point of view. You say a relationship/commitment is a must, but who defines what a relationship is. For Girl A, who met a guy on day 1, freidnship just clicked with him. She went out with him on a date on day 3 and slept with him on day 5. For you, this may be morally/ethically, or whatever wrong. For her, she thinks its a relationship and is comfortable with the guy and sees a future with him, may not be marriage, but a relationship. And please guys, keep God out of this! What has religion got to do with sex? And by the way, "keeping yourself" should mean not hugging anybody else too, not even shaking hands. Why not? Be a COMPLETE virgin, if you have to! In fact, by just "keeping" your sexual virginity, you are being sexual, thinking sexual, indicating that sex is dirty or special or something. Its just a process, a journey you share with whoever you are comfortable with as friend, as lover, as fiance, as husband as whatever. Saying NO! adamantly indicates immaturity just as desperati
