The very first question rose in my mind, by reading your artical, whether your denial of sex attributes to no desire for it or just over-ruling it for some purpose. If the answer is first one then you are abnormal and need medical help. Lack of basic desire is not natural. Like thirst and hunger sex too is natural, with the difference that it is not so urgent and one can bear and manage sex-starvation for prolonged period or even lifetime. But we shall not confuse lack of desire with starvation and willful administration.
Even in case of willful administration, the sexual energy residues some stress and long starvation disturbes mind control to some extent. It is part of your skill how you cop with it.
Because basic sex instict is product of body harmones and not just culture of human mind, it is an universal natural process for all creatures. In case of animal kingdom the breeding motivation is the prime priority, besides pleasure of act. However in case of mankind, mating act is not so strongly attributed to just creating infants, but pleasure that dominates and hence there are choices and rejections. Neverthless biological factor remains active and lust declines over age.
pawar, u hit the nail on the head.
by anto on Aug 03, 2006 11:49 AM Permalink
hi pawar
as a (happily??) married man of 39 years with 2 kids , i 100% believe in what pawar says.
sex is exactly like hunger and sleep .... only difference we can keep it in abeyance for some time.
many people mistakenly think only men have that shagging lust for women, but women can turn out to be greater nmymphomaniacs than men. only that women dont expose thier emotions externally, while men make it so obvious by drooling in public.
i need sex at least 3 times a week , but my wife is okay 3 times a month....... too bad, right??
but the thought of adultery has only now started crossing my mind because of this mis-match ........ but i doubt i would do it unless an APSARA enticed me.
all that talk of controlling sex in the "mind" is simply mumbo-jumbo.
