The very first question rose in my mind, by reading your artical, whether your denial of sex attributes to no desire for it or just over-ruling it for some purpose. If the answer is first one then you are abnormal and need medical help. Lack of basic desire is not natural. Like thirst and hunger sex too is natural, with the difference that it is not so urgent and one can bear and manage sex-starvation for prolonged period or even lifetime. But we shall not confuse lack of desire with starvation and willful administration.
Even in case of willful administration, the sexual energy residues some stress and long starvation disturbes mind control to some extent. It is part of your skill how you cop with it.
Because basic sex instict is product of body harmones and not just culture of human mind, it is an universal natural process for all creatures. In case of animal kingdom the breeding motivation is the prime priority, besides pleasure of act. However in case of mankind, mating act is not so strongly attributed to just creating infants, but pleasure that dominates and hence there are choices and rejections. Neverthless biological factor remains active and lust declines over age.
