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by Guest on Dec 16, 2009 01:03 PM   Permalink | Hide replies

i am a second year degree holder.i could not speak in english on stage.when stand before others i feel shy.tell me how to discard the fear?& what i would do for improve my language

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  Re: soft skills
by umavenkat on Jan 19, 2010 09:58 AM   Permalink
We shy away from things and do not do, when we give importance to what others think of me, that what growth it does to me.
Focus on what growth it does to you.
and to learn to communicate, you should be there at every possible dias to communicate and face a crowd. Take every possibility, as the first person, to communicate while you are in groups.
When one learn to drive a car, they dont drive well, during that learning period. If they shy away from roads, they can never learn driving.
Its ok to do something and improve instead of not doing at all.
Be at it, to beat it
Loving you all, all the time
Uma venkatachalam
soft skill trainer

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by sanjaya behera on Feb 09, 2010 07:52 PM   Permalink
Try to speak English infront of the mirror. It helps you to remove your shyness... Practice it daily 15 minutes...
Try this...
it relly works.......

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by umavenkat on Jan 19, 2010 09:59 AM   Permalink
We shy away from things and do not do, when we give importance to what others think of me, that what growth it does to me.
Focus on what growth it does to you.
and to learn to communicate, you should be there at every possible dias to communicate and face a crowd. Take every possibility, as the first person, to communicate while you are in groups.
When one learn to drive a car, they dont drive well, during that learning period. If they shy away from roads, they can never learn driving.
Its ok to do something and improve instead of not doing at all.
Be at it, to beat it
Loving you all, all the time
Uma venkatachalam
soft skill trainer

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by shikha choudhary on Jan 15, 2010 11:25 AM   Permalink
If you have knowledge of basic english, but you are not efficient in speaking, or if you have hesitation in speaking english. Then the best way to remove your hesitation is to join a institute or club like 'Toastmasters club'.



In india you can go for '''Anurag Aggarwal Institute of public speaking'. You will be trained for all those things which are a big problem in speaking english.



Most of the time we have hesitation for Speaking English is that we are afraid to speak in 'Public'. So you can go for ''Public Speaking course'' in which you will be trained for the following --



-Effective opening

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  Re: soft skills
by umavenkat on Jan 19, 2010 09:59 AM   Permalink
We shy away from things and do not do, when we give importance to what others think of me, that what growth it does to me.
Focus on what growth it does to you.
and to learn to communicate, you should be there at every possible dias to communicate and face a crowd. Take every possibility, as the first person, to communicate while you are in groups.
When one learn to drive a car, they dont drive well, during that learning period. If they shy away from roads, they can never learn driving.
Its ok to do something and improve instead of not doing at all.
Be at it, to beat it
Loving you all, all the time
Uma venkatachalam
soft skill trainer

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  Re: soft skills
by Swapnil Patil on Jul 07, 2010 10:26 AM   Permalink
join ELIXIR at Aundh

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by sanjaya behera on Feb 09, 2010 07:52 PM   Permalink
Try to speak English infront of the mirror. It helps you to remove your shyness... Practice it daily 15 minutes...
Try this...
it relly works.......

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  Re: soft skills
by umavenkat on Jan 19, 2010 09:59 AM   Permalink
We shy away from things and do not do, when we give importance to what others think of me, that what growth it does to me.
Focus on what growth it does to you.
and to learn to communicate, you should be there at every possible dias to communicate and face a crowd. Take every possibility, as the first person, to communicate while you are in groups.
When one learn to drive a car, they dont drive well, during that learning period. If they shy away from roads, they can never learn driving.
Its ok to do something and improve instead of not doing at all.
Be at it, to beat it
Loving you all, all the time
Uma venkatachalam
soft skill trainer

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  Re: soft skills
by umavenkat on Jan 19, 2010 09:58 AM   Permalink
We shy away from things and do not do, when we give importance to what others think of me, that what growth it does to me.
Focus on what growth it does to you.
and to learn to communicate, you should be there at every possible dias to communicate and face a crowd. Take every possibility, as the first person, to communicate while you are in groups.
When one learn to drive a car, they dont drive well, during that learning period. If they shy away from roads, they can never learn driving.
Its ok to do something and improve instead of not doing at all.
Be at it, to beat it
Loving you all, all the time
Uma venkatachalam
soft skill trainer

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