I dont see any point in this whole discussion. We marry the wrong person and then we are unhappy hence we divorce.
If were would marry someone who we loved a lot or liked a lot we would put in efforts to make the relationship special. Incase we are not then we know its not about working long hours or anything .. its just that we did not make an effort at all. We are married to a person we did not want to be married in the first place.