Being Gay is not a choice but is prevalent and all of us must accept this. Children from an early age have this tendency and society makes life difficult for them. To avoid social stigma attached to this we even force them to get married not once thinking of the other partner and what he/she may go through. Sweeping this under the carpet does not mean that this does not exist - it has existed for million of years. We must learn to accept them as part of society. They are also humans like any of us
RE:we all have a place in this world
by Joyee Funee on Feb 27, 2008 02:03 PM Permalink
Good points
Many time deivorces are result of the tendecy for men by men
And we ruin the life of our daugter/ sister, instead it should be accepted in society so gays openly accepts their tendency and refuse to mary instead of ruining the womens life
In the name of freedom of choice and accepting such trends are we risking the children? If you read the article the guy says he had a relationship at the age of 13 whith a guy of 21. This guy was a kid then but what about the man who was 21 and exploited him.At an adolecnece stage every incident can make or break life. So please dont tolerate future epidemic in the name of personal choice.
RE:RE:Think about it before you comment
by Imran on Feb 27, 2008 02:04 PM Permalink
I have put forward a logic and if you see no logic in it then you are at loss. As far as religion is concerned why are you so prejudiced in life. Dont live with a complex my friend.The world will be as you want it to be. I get a feeling that you are too unhappy in life. Read the book SECRET it will make you look at life from diffrent perspective and Do read my religion with a neutral mind and I assure you you will accept it.
RE:RE:Think about it before you comment
by Imran on Feb 27, 2008 02:17 PM Permalink
Dear Joyee, I am against encouraging this trend by accepting it and not making thier life miserable. The way forward can be educating them and rehab. Doing a research on the subject at more depth
dont encourage homosexuality. very soon there will be a group of people advocating sex with animals and some other people are passionate about having sex with corpses. so much uncontralled nonsense is going on. its high time this kind of social disease should be dealt with.
RE:homesexuality is a disorder
by Karthik Soundar on Feb 27, 2008 01:50 PM Permalink
This trend has been there since the begining of human evolution.. read history... It was even socially accetable to be openly Gay in Greece, Roam and Persia..
Everything has its place in the world.. u just cant stop all that and if u try u will definately make it worse.. becoz all such things are born becoz of conflict in the mind and the last thing u should do is make it more confusing with more morals and laws.
One of my freind is suffering from Sexual imbalance & feels he is a gay. He is now forced to get married to a girl but he has confessed to me that he cant get that part of his aroused !!
Is there any medical treatment that I can suggest him? Pls advice.
RE:Gay Issues
by Deepak Yadav on Feb 27, 2008 01:51 PM Permalink
Ask him to see a doctor, Urologist or Sexologist or Psychologist.First it has to be ascertained if he is physically fit means if his manhood is well developed followed by some hormone test if those are also o.k, followed by some sessions by Psychologist.
RE:Gay Issues
by Parimala Murthy on Feb 27, 2008 01:55 PM Permalink
First of all is there any medicine for this at all? He has confessed to me that he feels like a gay simply because he has been shagging for his personal satisfaction since 18 years now & hence feels that he has not developed that part of his like others.
RE:Gay Issues
by babloo don on Feb 27, 2008 03:39 PM Permalink
its not a problem yaar lot of solutions are thiere just say him to consult a good sexologist
RE:Gay Issues
by Parimala Murthy on Feb 27, 2008 01:59 PM Permalink
u r so rude. If you can give suggestion,, please do that..else dont suggest bad things. Remember this can not only make his life happy but also his aged parents.
RE:andu gundu danda pani
by Karthik Soundar on Feb 27, 2008 01:46 PM Permalink
yah and north indans are fair in complexion.. lol... ur as dark as us u bum.. get that fantasy out that ur europeans or something lol... ur just a sand nigger..
RE:andu gundu danda pani
by Parimala Murthy on Feb 27, 2008 01:47 PM Permalink
your comment is incorrect..we have Simran, Trisha, Asin, Soundarya, Ramyakrishna, Meena, Prema, Roja & now Shreya so many nice looking babes coming from Chennai Film industry. Even men from Chennai think of one person,,,they shud feel happy.
RE:MSW
by Karthik Soundar on Feb 27, 2008 01:49 PM Permalink
This trend has been there since the begining of human evolution.. read history... It was even socially accetable to be openly Gay in Greece, Roam and Persia..
Everything has its place in the world.. u just cant stop all that and if u try u will definately make it worse.. becoz all such things are born becoz of conflict in the mind and the last thing u should do is make it more confusing with more morals and laws..
RE:MSW
by niranjani shety on Feb 27, 2008 02:03 PM Permalink
tried and tested is MSW, it has not created any great society. Even Sita was sent to Chita in MSW so why not test MSM and WSW.
I am now 55 years of age and working.I have two well settled and educated children.I just want to share my thoughts on the issue. In my life I have been attracted to men and women both.I have sexual sessions with both.I have experience of being a bull as well as being a cow.I want to say that in most cases that I have seen there is always a mix of gay and so called normal streaks.The proportions cal vary to the extremes.In fact I have seen many so called normal males blushing and being coy when a well built male comes on strong.I have also observed it in the animal world.It is thus stictly a matter of personal preferences which often vary with time and situation.
Being Gay comes out of over protective parenting, guilt and treating a son like a girl etc., It has nothing to do with biology(nature) but has everything to do with nurture...
I am a bisexual myself(meaning i like both men and women). I have have found it in me that my over protective parenting caused guilt towards watching naked women, so that slowely diverted me to looking at guys too, so i feel less guilty and sinful.
So it is the same varition of upbring that causes it.. u cant avoid it.. man in general is dictated by his mind.. so unless we all become Buddhas we will never get over such things like sexuality, religion, countries and other dividive things the mind creates.
RE:Gay
by Karthik Soundar on Feb 27, 2008 01:43 PM Permalink
A man does not play a majore roll in upbringing anyway.. it is the mother that teaches everything.. the base of a childs early psychology is built by the mother.. So i will do what other fathers do.. sit at office and come home late and play with my kid a bit before going to sleep..
Its only when he really needs my guidance i can help him.. and i am sure i quite knowledgable for that.. and thats not till he is atleast 15..
RE:Gay
by Vue on Apr 23, 2008 05:25 PM Permalink
Dear Idiots,
Thank you very much for your very useful comments. Lord Krishna had many seductive affairs with many girls, polygamous. Please advice me whether I should support polygamy or not? 1. Homosexuality is a common phenomenon in all mammals, but 'not' inter-species sex. So don't equate bestiality with homosexuality or bisexuality. If cannot accept these facts of Science, please do not ever see a doctor and take medicines, because they are all based on the same scientific principles. Drugs are first tested in mammals before prescribed to us. 2. India was a very liberal society. It was the later Islamic and Victorian (British) influence that has criminalised homosexuality, oppressed women, etc. We are naturally accepting with works, such as, Kamasutra, etc., that are considered, rightfully, holy. Conservative Indians like you are, thus, anti-Indian; they are more Islamic- and Christian-fundamentalist (in the middle east and bible-belt America, respectively) like. 3. Following on no. 1 above, as pointed out by others, incest is forbidden at different levels and degrees with varying degree of relatedness in different cultures. Moreover, it evolved (culturally) in civilisation to prevent genetic defects and diseases. Full stop. 4. Sexuality is multigenic. In fact, scientific evidence shows that it is a cumulation of many good characteristics, such as, niceness in a male, etc. Hence, contrary to popular misbeliefs, they are likely to be much nicer and kinder people.
RE:Show them Bipasha nude and then see !
by Sunanda Roy on Feb 27, 2008 01:42 PM Permalink
Mr. Rohit It seems you are unaware what makes a person gay or lesbian. Its not his/her own making.Its the way God willed.No amount of arousals will be their if you show erotic shots/person to them
RE:Show them Bipasha nude and then see !
by Karthik Soundar on Feb 27, 2008 01:40 PM Permalink
I am sure ur life is perfect and diserves no kicks.. everything has a cause it is not without a cause that ppl are gay..
Obiviously u wont understand something that is not part of ur life.. so u wont understand..
or may be ur gay and just want to hide ur sexuality by makeing fun of others.. lol.. :D
