Well,I cant believe how much hatred and venom lies within some of the members in this forum. Your ideas and views come across quite crude,childish and unrefined. I am sorry that you'll have to live the rest of your life with hate and resentment in you and your failure to accept life and people as it is,evokes my deepest sympathy. Hope someday you come up with a mature perspective on life and people around you.Well,books and general awareness are a good place to start.
RE:Forum
by jovial lewis on Feb 28, 2008 04:41 AM Permalink
i agree with you anup....and monica....these people down here will stay down all their lives with limited thinking,intolerance and crazy ideas.why shd one become masculine u fool ..(for the one who suggested).....u can see what people reading all these holy books do in our country and all around the world....u readong these books too should learn that hinduism and all isms and ities preach acceptance and tolerance.if 2 people are happy being gays why shd that bother u ? and for the one who keeps gloating on someone's father to be a gay...well whats wrong with that? maybe they had suppressed their preferences due to people like u....hey no one changes reading holy books, if so, we wouldn't have had poverty,unemployment,substance abuse and all the social issues that trouble our country.and for your GENERAL KNOWLEDGE....homosexuality which was once known as a psychological disorder is no longer called so and it is NORMAL TO BE SO....u heard it normal...u better accept it and shut ur mouths.
RE:Forum
by onelifetogo on Feb 27, 2008 05:33 PM Permalink
Anup, thats the end of your thoughts on the Gay-issue. I assure you there are ways which a Gay can acquire Masculine qualities, but will u believe it?? NO need of getting so tensed, If you were right, you should have answer to everything tht is spoken against you. IF you miss out at any one question, you are not right AT ALL. So its you who needs Family-Relations books, Counselling on the need of proper& correct sexual-orientations.
What is the use of my Bashan, if you WANT TO CONTINUE TO LIVE THE WAY YOU WANT TO
RE:Forum
by on Feb 27, 2008 05:32 PM Permalink
Change yourself too. Please read bhagawat gita if you are hindu, qoran if you are muslim or bible if you are xtian and change yourself.
RE:RE:Forum
by onelifetogo on Feb 27, 2008 05:54 PM Permalink
Welcome Monica, Do you know that there are people who prefer becoming gay, even after they have had their own children? You father could be one.
do not grow up to an abnormal level, where you can have sex with members of same sex, and maybe with animals, and in future with your own family members.
This is not about hatred and venom. this is just facts and self-restraints.
I agree, you are also a human being. But if you have some bad habit, is it not your duty to correct it, instead of blaming your genes?
All our behavior is in our genes. But if you lift something from the supermarket, or misbehave with someone and later blame that on your genes, that is simply not the way. Instead, try to control those habits and live a life, which is not ALL about sex.
If you cannot control yourself to be a straight, the adopt chastity (sexual abstinence). I think that will be a more responsible human being.
RE:Forum
by on Mar 13, 2008 03:21 PM Permalink
I am sorry BEACHY BABES you are a idiot - being gay is not a habit, we have no chocice - god has made us what we are.
...Animals have already been included as part of Sexual Orientation in the internet these days. This is just the root for a newer society later. Gay lovers wont like it, but to support their own statments, they will support animal lovers also
RE:About Animals...
by on Feb 27, 2008 05:33 PM Permalink
Poor animals. Already a lot of them are going extinct and now its worse than ever. Whoever wants to have animal sex should first have tiger sex or crocodile sex.
RE:What will you say?
by on Feb 27, 2008 09:05 PM Permalink
Do you have any sense? I dont think you do. If so, you wouldn't compare a mutually consensual attraction/romance/love and sex to man -animal sex! Grow up.
if being gay is a feeling which u guys wanna promote, then u guys wil also suppot incest.
assume u are the father and come across a situation where ur wife and son have a feeling for each others body. will u support it.
being gay is a problem which need to be corrected through psychological support and not to be encouraged for spreading. then we will have dangerous trend following.
RE:supporting gays means supporting incest too
by gac on Feb 27, 2008 05:08 PM Permalink
its absurd connecting gay's to incest.sex n marriage with certain relationship which are acceptable in certain societies are not acceptable in other. which means theres is no fixed or common rules for incest or sexual relationships. it has been evolving according to the society and its lifestyle.
RE:RE:supporting gays means supporting incest too
by onelifetogo on Feb 27, 2008 05:13 PM Permalink
So, now it has hurt ur heart????
Even if things are evolving, they do have their roots. If you have seen a plant blooming out of the ground that doesnt mean, it has started growing. The content is inside the ground, but when the outside situation becomes favaourable for flourshing, the plant comes out.
Incest/Animal sex all did exist but why should they evolve along with our present society & lifestyle.?
RE:RE:RE:supporting gays means supporting incest too
by gac on Feb 27, 2008 05:29 PM Permalink
u hav come to incest/animal now, wat all m sayin is wat looks incest to u may not be not b incest to someone else. eg: its incest to hav relationship with first cousins but its a birth rite to get married to first cousin in south india. so u cant abuse south indians as incest if first cousins are having sexual relationship. form ur point of u its incest but not for them. so learn to accept n respect others idea also.
RE:supporting gays means supporting incest too
by Beachy Babes on Feb 27, 2008 04:58 PM Permalink
absolutely right. there are some who were brainwashed in their teenage to indulge in homosexual activities and they now think that it is in their gene!
Bullshit.
If you analyse like that, actually all our behavior is in our genes. But if you steal something from somebody (which maybe a genetic tendency), wont you get punished??
RE:Can we discuss about Eunuchs??
by Beachy Babes on Feb 27, 2008 04:50 PM Permalink
there is definitely a link between eun*uchs and gays.
some people pay for sex with eu*nuchs. this is also a proof that there are some who are desperate to have sex with everybody, male or female or eu*nuch or even animals.
they are sick. they are setting bad norms for the young generations.
RE:Can we discuss about Eunuchs??
by Footy on Feb 27, 2008 04:38 PM Permalink
as your id says, its only one life. every has the right to live the life the way they want as long as its not harming others.
RE:Can we discuss about Eunuchs??
by onelifetogo on Feb 27, 2008 04:57 PM Permalink
Yes, As my id says, OneLifetogo...Its only One, Live it Right! But u will spend this ONE life living right with what has wrongly evolved.
Again you are wrong,Beachybabes,it IS NOT A HORMONAL defect either! Infact it is not a defect at all,its like saying,its wrong to be a vegetarian,because its a hormonal/genetic defect! And I dont understand why you are so keen on punishing everyone?Is it a solution to all of life's problems? And who told you "90% of the gays do not want to settle down with a gay",where do you come up with these funny statistics?So do you mean to say if a straight guy who enjoys making love to women and do not want to be settled ,he needs to be punished as well?Just keep an open mind and accept the variety in nature,atleast for a girl like you,wont you like to be with a guy who does not look at you as an object of pleasure,but sees as you a good friend,I think gay men can give you that company :)
RE:To beachybabes
by Anup on Feb 27, 2008 05:02 PM Permalink
I am not telling you its similar,I am saying its matter of choice an individual makes at some point of time in life. I simply dont understand the 'social fabric' you are talking about? Isnt the society comprised of people like you,me and straight and homosexual men. If this society does not cater to the interest of a certian section of the society I would serously doubt its credibility. You are a human being first,your sexuality is only second to that.
Now you are saying being gay is okay. After some years, you will say having sex with animals is also okay. Then also, you will argue that having sex with animals will not damage social fabric.
Then ultimately you will argue that having sex among the same family members is also okay, if you do not produce a child.
You are sick, Anup. Think tonight, when you lay in the bed, what I have just said and try to change yourself.
