This is not about hatred and venom. this is just facts and self-restraints.
I agree, you are also a human being. But if you have some bad habit, is it not your duty to correct it, instead of blaming your genes?
All our behavior is in our genes. But if you lift something from the supermarket, or misbehave with someone and later blame that on your genes, that is simply not the way. Instead, try to control those habits and live a life, which is not ALL about sex.
If you cannot control yourself to be a straight, the adopt chastity (sexual abstinence). I think that will be a more responsible human being.