After having done all the arrangements one must Not forget to surrender the occasion n arrangements to the God Almighty bcos in Him all things take place in the right manner...
As to attending ur guests, even though u do the best of preparations yet u can expect to receive criticisms so Dont worry abt it. Just believe in whatever u plan to do, n try to b practical in ur planning. Very important is tht u neednot do over spending bcos after all is over u wud b facing the pinch of your overwhelming expenses. infact ur Actual need wud begin once u r in responsibility of ur partner n setting up a stable family.
Re: Surrendering
by Michael Martin on Nov 12, 2008 10:02 AM Permalink
thank you for your notes from the Bible. its very inspiring. please write to me on my id
To remind urself n ur wud b wife that the wedding is at so n so place n especially at This particular time- So Dont u Dare to Come Late!!! bcos u r the Hosts of the wedding n the ceremony... (ha haaaa)
Re: Missed important thing
by bun maska on Oct 08, 2008 10:49 AM Permalink
Withdraw at the peak. The first feel shud be natural without any 'obstacles'.
Re: Missed important thing
by MANGESH BAND on Oct 11, 2008 12:20 PM Permalink
I think only 20% people experience their first time sex after marriage.Maximum people are well experienced in sex before marriage.
MAKE IT LEGAL WITH TWO PARTIES FAMILY PRESENT FOR SIGNATURE AND A SMALL LUNCH OR DINNER SESSION FOR THE PEOPLE WHO CAME THATS ALL.
Except the Bride and groom and parents of both families nobody cares for marriage!. spend money on investment or property. dont take dowry this is applicable for bloody indian arranged marriages.
Re: This is Indian wedding???
by common sense on Oct 08, 2008 04:35 PM Permalink
This article is lifted from some US site. In India, even in so called love marriages when both parents agree, wedding details are always decided by both set of parents with bride and groom hardly have anything to say. This happened in my case. Both my parents and in laws decided all aspects of wedding including expenses. I was never allowed to say anything except I had chosen my spouse on my own. Neither did I nor my spouse spend anything at our wedding. Even in case of siblings,cousins etc many are MBA with fat salaries, whether love or arranged marriage, parents decided wedding details and paid for it. This article is sheer non-sense
Re: wedding preparation 498a and HMA
by Chandrark Sangani on Oct 08, 2008 12:52 PM Permalink
THis is the most important Message. PLEASE TAKE ALL LEGAL PRECUATIONS AS IT IS ALMOST A CRIME TO GET MARRIED UNDER HINDU MARRIAGE ACT... for the BOYS!!!
