RE:Is marrying your best friend a good idea!!!!
by V.Thasa on Apr 19, 2008 08:51 PM Permalink
some of the "know devils"..turn into monsters after marriage, so it is not always true.Life is much dif after marriage even for love marriages.Statistically, love marriages fail more than arranged
RE:RE:Is marrying your best friend a good idea!!!!
by Saugata Banerjee on Apr 19, 2008 08:54 PM Permalink
99% LOVE MARRIAGE IS UNSUCCESSFUL WHEREAS 95% arrange marriage is successful
RE:RE:Is marrying your best friend a good idea!!!!
by Saugata Banerjee on Apr 19, 2008 08:52 PM Permalink
bad taste to hear seriously but as a joke he..he...he..
yes... i also feel it same way. One should get married to his/her best friend over a periond of time because both understand each other very well. And if there is true love then life is heaven. In true friendship you always feel to give happiness/love to your close friend.
I know my husband since my school days. we were best freinds for almost 12 years and we realised that we both were addicted to each other. We are happily married now, and have no regrets on our decision for bieng together. Iam proud that we are the happiest couple, among all the copules i had seen till date.
He knows my likes dislikes, my past, my dreams, my family and each and every thing about me. Similarly even i knw about him.
Since we were best frineds we have execellent relations with the family and in laws.
ITS ALWAYS BEST TO MARRY A BEST FRIEND OR A PERSON WHOM U KNOW WELL.
Friendship is the first step to Love, nothing can be better, if best frnds marry each other as nobody else can get that comfort level or understandig which they carry. All depends on understanding and space they give to each other. Trust & bonding would have a different meaning around this. Life cannot be lived Twice, marry the person which knows u most and you know most.
It's brilliant idea to marry your best friend as they know alomst everything about you, your family, character, attitude, likes dislikes. It makes one easy to adjust in a family where you are more familiar with all the members. We have been sharing almost evething with them so why don't make them a part of your life by marrying them.It's not necessary to be in love to get married but what matters is how much you know that person & when you are so much mentally, emotinally attached with a friend it would be a blunder to get along with some one whom you don't know.Those who beleive that they will loose a friend by marrying them that all that I can say that it depends upon the mentality of than individual.
RE:marry good friend
by Sateesh Nayak on Apr 19, 2008 01:17 PM Permalink
I hope they are thinking deeply. might respond with great ideas with lots of ?????????? -nayak
Yes, if you can still remain only that, best friends, irrespective of your legal status as spouses. We have successfully experimented with that, we became friends first, and married, but vowed to remain each other's friend.This has kept the warmth alive and openness too. I think, a minimum of 6 months of courtship before wedding helps in arranged marriage situation,when you can strike friendship, before becoming spouses.
to live a better life, one should have better understanding & trust. Frindship is totally based on these qualities. So if it happens to marry ur best friend, U R THE LUKIEST PERSON ON THE EARTH. Note : continue friendship even after marriage. GOOD LUCK
