If single as man or woman is feeling happily then society shall accept rather than watching them with different perception. We shall respect their thought of living alone rather than after marraige making other's life painful.
RE:Single life
by RASHMI UPARI on Feb 09, 2007 04:11 PM Permalink
I do agree on it...cos jus from past few days even i am thinking to live but life alone..but when i think of society, i feel they should let the people to live alone...and change their way of thinking.
Life has carried on by producing offsprings.If all decide to stop reproducing the world ends there.But ofcourse each can decide what they are to do and others have no business with one's private beliefs.
Its time our society simply accepted that people wont simply marry because others think its a must. Better alone and happy than married and miserable. People are already moving in the right direction with more and more ignoring family pressure opting not to have children
RE:Marriage is not for everybody
by sukalyan swar on Feb 09, 2007 06:22 PM Permalink
"more and more ignoring family pressure" R u in family pressure? "people wont simply marry because others think its a must." You have mistaken. Marriage is not must factor. It is to ease the life with some one whom you can share every thing. I can understand that it varies from person to person. You talk what you experience. You think what you like to think.you see what you intend to see. You can be happy and peaceful staying with 10 family members just changing the view and perspective of your life. For further help you can mail me any time. Sukalyann@rediffmail.com
RE:RE:RE:Marriage is not for everybody
by mihir rajda on Feb 10, 2007 06:52 AM Permalink
sukhwinder again...............................................if ev1 needs a nap i think u nd a 2 nd life all 2gdr..gosh i cnt blv dat a person wid such hell of a frustration exists..i blv u r alone....n m sure u arnt happy....dnt agree man dat being asingle is happy..though m single..bt i feel u hv smthng else in ur heart n ur brains r on a diff track...i doubt u can b happy being single...u sound frustrated man!! ok 4 ur happiness v all will go 4 a psychiatrist treatment..u wnt almost all of us 2 go rt?? bt den wer will u land up bro?? whuz gonna treat u?? may be life itslf...and some dozes of "time"...i knw it is far away 4 u 2 undstnd smthng like dis...n i dnt expect or rather i doubt ur capability 2 undstand dis...its ok u will b fine..dnt worry...get well soon!!!!!!!!!!v all will pray 4 u..
RE:RE:RE:RE:Marriage is not for everybody
by swan on Feb 10, 2007 09:27 PM Permalink
Hey...looks like its just bot[robot] with the same words...templates ..huh...let it be...lets just ignore... Sukhi...u gotta Try n live for others... Question: Do you know what a SPECIAL person is??
Not every man/woman who is well established and is single, plans to remain single. At least 80% of such men/women intend to settle down sometime in life with their Mr. Right or Ms. Right. The question is only a matter of time.
People who are reasonably financially independent and doing well for themselves, cannot compromise by getting into a commitment like marriage, just because they have to get married. They believe, and rightly so, that it is better to have a late marriage then to settle down with the wrong person or someone with whom they don%u2019t share a good comfort level. And being financially successful, just allows them to exercise their discretion.
Even Baba ramdev is single and he happy...see how he spreads happiness to others....
Besides a normal single person can save enough to afford a high-end old-age home which are increasiong in number in India now.....After all what percentage of parents today are actually looked after by their children?
It depends on what you are comfortable with. Some might like to stay alone. That is not wrong. But having a companion would make you feel better, that's for sure
