"more and more ignoring family pressure" R u in family pressure? "people wont simply marry because others think its a must." You have mistaken. Marriage is not must factor. It is to ease the life with some one whom you can share every thing. I can understand that it varies from person to person. You talk what you experience. You think what you like to think.you see what you intend to see. You can be happy and peaceful staying with 10 family members just changing the view and perspective of your life. For further help you can mail me any time. Sukalyann@rediffmail.com