Hi all, Dating a colleague does hamper ur productivity.but on the other side , such things are not avoidable coz we do spend major part of the day in offices. it somehow proves to foster relationships. wat if such relationship with colleague sours, we do tend to take personal issues at the workplace and it does creates mess in both personal and professional life( not to mention effects our productivity). The decion whether to date a colleague or not depends on individual as each reacts differently to such matters ......
RE:Office romance
by Kedar on Sep 13, 2006 04:16 PM Permalink
Dear Ms.Ashwani,
I am fully aggree with your points if there is a transprency between you and your colleague then in that case there is no problem. If you belive some one may be he is your colleague or any other friend and if he has not having a transprency then there is problem. In our country very few peoples exectly know the defination of real friendship. It is not only the dating but its a trnsperency of faith. Reply me if possible
WHY NOT? You can spend time with that person. and also you will be aware of the things in his/her life... I can't see any issues in such kinda relationships... If somebody says that we are not working with humans then i don't have arguments with that person.. but if everybody accepts that we are working with humans' only then there is no reason one can't have feeling for his/her colleague.... Thanks! Might be somebody has different point on the same ... Thinking differs.. depends upon person to person ... All d best with their thinking ... bbyeeeeee everybody ..
RE:I can't see any Issues in dating a colleague
by priya on Sep 16, 2006 05:01 PM Permalink
Well, if u love sumone, its very good and u should be very happy. If she doesnt love you, thats her choice. U cant force anybody to love you. Love in itself is very great. U need not to get upset for a person who doesnt even care for u. Enjoy Life!!
It is perfectly ok to have love affairs in the office until it does not affect the productivity of the work. Like you should not b sitting togather in the cafeteria instead in your cubicles during office hours. Also the bosses should understand that it the personal life of the individual and they should not be bothered by the affair if he/ she is performing his/her duties sciencerly,, unless he/she get jealous.
I don't see anything wrong in having an affair with a colleague as long as you know the limits and stay professionally within the office premise. I have had one in the past and it didn't work out for completely different reasons but I am so grateful to her till date that she was there for at a time when no one else was there. On a lighter note...how do you resist if someone is extremely hot and she is right there !!!
