kudos to this wonderful article of urs i have been known by my friends and relatives as a very short tempered and rigid personality and lately i feel that i have been doing lots of injustice to my 4-1/2 yr old son i have taken a print of ur article and put it right in front on my soft board i am relly grateful for this help it is like a eyeopener to me thx again
i have been known by my friends and relatives as a very short tempered and rigid personality and lately i feel that i have been doing lots of injustice to my 4-1/2 yr old son i have taken a print of ur article and put it right in front on my soft board i am relly grateful for this help it is like a eyeopener to me thx again
hi the tips given can always be tried.The best way i've exp with my 2yr old stubborn son is by diverting his attention to something else. could ypu pls have an article at wht thing to be taught or wht kind of educational games should be introduced at different stages.
Its natural that everyone including kids have tantrums. This article throughs best insight into handling child's bad temper. How about handling same situation with elders. They may be colleagues, relatives, neighbours or anyone. Could you please publish article on handling short tempered persons.
the article is interesting. being the mother of a single child is even more tougher. very often, it is difficult to differentiate as to when to pamper and when to punish, as the single parent is the only source the child looks upto. It can sometimes wear the parent down also. Well, experience the best teacher finally!!!
Hello, Yu are right in saying that encouraging a child's good behaviour is a solution to tantrums.
It has always worked for my 7 yr old daughter, she needs a load of assuarance that I love and respect her feelings too.
More often when I praise her friends and cousins in in her presence....I always go back to her and explain to her that even she has the same good qualities as them....and how they all are equally good children. Hugging and spending quality time with your child leaves them a very composed and comfortable and mentally healthy individual too..very important for their academic and general progress.
I gift her everytime with books or knowledgeable toys to reward her achievements in school.She loves these. Sometimes with things she needs anyways, like new clothes, shoes etc, making them appear like rewards for good behaviour.
Apologise to your child if yu realise a mistake on your part,as this teaches them to do the same to others and hence they grow up to be a good Student, good Friend, good Sibling,Good Person! The rewards of taking these and more efforts in early days of the childs growing period are amazing to reap in the later life!
