u r blessed among girls to have such values,and let me assure you that if you keep up this attitude you will certainly get the man of your dreams. n trust me its going to be a hell lot satisfying than the plastic smiles and happinesses of that of your friends. please do not change,the world needs women like you,please do not doubt yourself.you are right.
i wish you a happy and pure life with your partner. give it a shot. we are not animals who run on instinct,we are living,thinking ,and rational humans. so be one,and teach your friend to be one too.
Yes I would certainly agree with the Reader. We should have certain commitments that's how life here in India goes.Both the partners should get Married and should be Mentally and physicall fit for the sex life
It is great to listen to these words in this so called globalised world.Having sex is just not the true pleasure,There is something called trust between the individuals which should be valued at any cost.As per the reader's friends view that we are just like any animals. Why do we dress then,We can just roam the way animals do.Come on we got the extra sense which the animals don't have, That extra sense makes the difference.
Please don't compare the Sex between Animals and Human Beings.Sex is not just the bodily pleasure it is beyond that.
I fully agree with you, & I am 32 male & still virgin. Many women proposed to have sex with me, but I am also against sex without love... relationship. I am delighted to know that there are still people like you ,Hats off to you..
What has sex gotta do with marriage? It is love and not plain animal manner of copulation. And if i want to lose my virginity "emotionally" nuthing should stop anyone from doing that. I would want to spend my life with one girl only, and if i have had sex with her, that doesnt make either of us less puerile. I have spent 7 long years in one relationship and plan to continue for many many more years to come. And sex has no defining role to play in it.
It is because of the emotional connect. Physical is just an element of intimacy. God forbade, tommorow if i am to separate, then it would NOT BOTHER me at all about the girl i finally marry, is a virgin or not. Coz i will never have that emotional connect as i had. So then where does the matter of sex: post or pre marriage come into picture.
Dear Sarah, Your's was a very thought provoking article. A lot has been written on pre-marital sex, and there are people on both sides with their own theories and reasons, constantly debating the 'morals' and the 'freedom'. However, personally for me, sex should be kept within the confines of marrige. Man, social animal that he is, is sure free to experiment and draw on his animal instincts to venture into the forbidden territories; BUT, since he is the best evolution in nature, the most thinking & knowledgable species, he should keep control on his biological needs until appropriate time. Sex should not be an experiment, it should be a fulfilment. It should be an art, which should improve and excel between two agreeing individuals in the confines of marriage. Let's not be animals looking for pillars on the roadside answering the nature's call.
The trauma is caused to only females and not males.This is because of her mindset,baby.Nothing else.It is because she is taught from childhood like this.I think sex is a simple biological act which in humans is both for pleasure and procreation and eep bonding between persons of opposite sex.There is no platonic relationship betwen man and woman.We cant do it on roads like dogs beacuse we wear clothings,dogs don't.That is all.Dont take sex so seriously.But it should be limited,personal and safe and in right age group.
with the growing job opportunities for women,their interaction at work and long hours naturally attract them for some fun with males which is hard to contain. furthermore, a non-committal approach has been created by man and woman living under one roof as they can afford the comfort and luxury with high salaries they get. so,the need for a committed marriage is on the wane. this closeness gives them opportunities to unite sexually and feel contented about being sexually active without the bothersome commitment of marriage and children.the main risk they face is that with too many partners and variety they enjoy, they will never be content with a single partner and consequently lose their interest in marriage altogether besides exposing themselves to life threatening diseases like aids.
since its a controversial issue for those who support evolutionary biology to a greater extent,and they feel its just a matter of gene which they want to transfer to their progeny, and what they called as a selfish gene and also they talk more about sexual selection so to be precise they wanted to relate this as a one of the animal behaviour in a sophisticated manner, but i beleive this is more than that as you mentioned this not about heat period or just to copulate, its about love and many more things which you have already discussed.its good to read and i do agree with you.
