The trauma is caused to only females and not males.This is because of her mindset,baby.Nothing else.It is because she is taught from childhood like this.I think sex is a simple biological act which in humans is both for pleasure and procreation and eep bonding between persons of opposite sex.There is no platonic relationship betwen man and woman.We cant do it on roads like dogs beacuse we wear clothings,dogs don't.That is all.Dont take sex so seriously.But it should be limited,personal and safe and in right age group.