sex is not important before marrige .In this time we should that we understood in other and try to find defferent in between of both,so that after marrige we cann't say anybody that you do wrong with us.
RE:no sex please
by R.K.Aggarwal on Jan 09, 2007 10:17 AM Permalink
i dont agree with u.people are hypocrites in India.in foreign,people do sex before marraige and they accept that openly. In India, many gals indulge in pre-marital sex and when comes to marraige, pretend to be virgins. so,either accept indian thinking and culture which forbids pre-marital sex or accept western models. so ,dont mix the two.
You are 101% right in your mind as this will keep your purity intact and you will get in to very neat and clean life with clea purpose.Those who thinks that human are bound to react the way animanl react i think they should admit this fact that they are worse then animal who has not given intellect by mother nature to distinguish between pure and impure relations.
You should ask your friend that when it's just like animal then i she hides her sex life why can't she tell her encounter in open to every one why she wants to be on virginity side i.e by way o f showing that they have not done anything.
You would notice that such kind of person are worse then animal as they don't pretend what they don't do.But human has a habit of showing what they are not that's what gives clear thought in deciding what 's wrong and what's right.
So just be with your thought and later on in coming years you will see these people regretting their actions impure actions.
It is not about right & wrong
by Raj on Aug 02, 2006 02:07 PM Permalink
It is about truth.
And the truth is everything has a end to it. Be it happiness or pleasure or be it troubled time or sad times.
The problem with you people is you give a lot of importance to feeling secure. You forget Change is the only constant thing which is happening all around you and to you.
Some create those changes and some let the situation create those changes, they adapt to a situation created around by them. They are the secure kind. But even for this people somebody out there like a DAD or MOM is creating those changes.
So please feel secure and for god sake do not preach it. By you preaching it you can not achieve anything.
For example, if you are the secure kind ,then you can wait for your MOM and DAD to find you a partner. But if you like to create you environment then I feel one should go ahead and create it. It is better that way - that to if you can find yourself a partner and understand the fact that marraige or affair, as long it is a single partner you are safe from AIDS and can live a long life by limmiting your partnerships, all is going well.
I convince y r thoughts but the main difficulty is that to practice on thought .Tathagat(One who practice what he talk)did not asked his disciples to write volumes of his phylosophy because he practised what he preached.So pls convay u r thoughts on any matter i find it interesting.
RE:I am single
by Alok Agrahari on Aug 01, 2006 11:36 AM Permalink
There are 3 different decision maker/influencer inside my body,
1.) my physical needs
2.) my Brain
3.) my Heart
Sometime my physical urges do compell me to go out and relieve it,---and be natural to fullfill what my body wants, same as i eat food and drink water to satisfy my bodily needs.
but my brain tells me that even though we are animals but we are also social animals so we need to practice control and restrain on our desires, same as we do not drink and eat anything (like dogs)when we are hungry. We make a intelligent choice what water we can drink and what food we can eat.
my heart wants me to go ahead whatever it likes and never to go ahead which it doesn't approves, like i can share same glass of water with whom i am emotionally attached, without considering that my brain does not approves this and is also not advised by doctors.
Now it is absolutely the individual choice , to what you value more out of the above three.
Because, only that can give you prolonged happiness and satisfaction.
