And the truth is everything has a end to it. Be it happiness or pleasure or be it troubled time or sad times.
The problem with you people is you give a lot of importance to feeling secure. You forget Change is the only constant thing which is happening all around you and to you.
Some create those changes and some let the situation create those changes, they adapt to a situation created around by them. They are the secure kind. But even for this people somebody out there like a DAD or MOM is creating those changes.
So please feel secure and for god sake do not preach it. By you preaching it you can not achieve anything.
For example, if you are the secure kind ,then you can wait for your MOM and DAD to find you a partner. But if you like to create you environment then I feel one should go ahead and create it. It is better that way - that to if you can find yourself a partner and understand the fact that marraige or affair, as long it is a single partner you are safe from AIDS and can live a long life by limmiting your partnerships, all is going well.