i really think sex is a personal choice. Personally sex and marriage are not related for me. Maybe i am westernised but i beleive people should be free to choose the lives they want. and if they choose casual sex, its their call. you make the call and you live by it. i dont beleive in the dictates of a traditional society and personally dont get along with very conservative people.
yes i do agree taht sex is a need of human being.Mr. right concept also agreeable. but just only after marriage? This is the time when we all move towards career and spend most precious years in studies and career. I agree but when we stay single and we have this latent need which is accompanied by emotions it is difficult to suppress without having mental tensions with all those bollywood songs, movies, hindi dramas etc. Latent desire which is not recognized by us can make us psychologically restless and we dont know the root cause. people develop diseases related to digestions as hormones change and there is no alternative action which are to accompanied during such changes. Staying single is not bad if you decide but if you are just waiting to get married and ignoring your emotions for your loved one you are becoming enemy of your body. I might seem more open but if we see culture thing then this need has to be fulfilled in early 20 max. we cant wait till 30 and remain virgin to get married and simultaneously not decieved
You are absolutely true and honest and since you yourself penned down that man is a social animal, that means he/she thinks, evaluates, feels, emotes and understand the importance of love and sex. sex should not merely just for enjoyment but to connect mentally, spiritually and of course physically with the one you love.
Keep writing...looking fwd to a sequel on this from you.
Interesting article. I am a 24/m from India currently living in Manchester UK. From my experiences till date I've seen some of my friends (girls) feel the same. But, I think pre-marital sex if mutually consenting is no big deal even if the couple is not in a relationship. Like your 'flamboyant' friend, there are many girls and guys who tend to have the same outlook towards the subject. I feel it's a very personal choice and shouldn't be forced upon someone. That's probably when the guilt trip sets in. If you feel the fun in the bedroom should only be post marriage so be it and respect your decision.
u r right. sex is related with romance. it is not a animal act, atleast for humans. if u have sex without any emotions then we r diectly relating ourselves with sex-workers. even they do have emotional bondages with some of their clients. sex without love is a hollow thing. as it gets fillup with emotions it gets more & more solid thing which gives u real pleasure.
I am in total agreement with you. May be I am old fashioned, but I feel Casual Sex which is the in thing with most of the younger generation is very dangerouus, and can lead to very serious mental disorders.
I agree with the writer. I respect her views. In todays world where everybody is following blindly the American culture, u made it different. Pleasure is for few moments, Sin remains forever.
