hi friend, i totally agree with your opinion.but it is foolosh to compare humans with animals.i'm not saying this,as we humans are thinking that we are superior than animals because of having extra sense.ie.sixth sense. but we social animals because behave very worst than the normal animals.eg.i've not heard or seen any animal being called as lesbian, or homosexual.we should be ashamed of it and try to maintain som value in relationships.the complete functionality of this world is running due to attraction between two different sex.
The fact that this article got so many responses establishes that 'Sex sells' In INdia, around the world, wherever. As for "keeping yourself" till marriage, i think its completely an individual's point of view. You say a relationship/commitment is a must, but who defines what a relationship is. For Girl A, who met a guy on day 1, freidnship just clicked with him. She went out with him on a date on day 3 and slept with him on day 5. For you, this may be morally/ethically, or whatever wrong. For her, she thinks its a relationship and is comfortable with the guy and sees a future with him, may not be marriage, but a relationship. And please guys, keep God out of this! What has religion got to do with sex? And by the way, "keeping yourself" should mean not hugging anybody else too, not even shaking hands. Why not? Be a COMPLETE virgin, if you have to! In fact, by just "keeping" your sexual virginity, you are being sexual, thinking sexual, indicating that sex is dirty or special or something. Its just a process, a journey you share with whoever you are comfortable with as friend, as lover, as fiance, as husband as whatever. Saying NO! adamantly indicates immaturity just as desperati
RE:For God's sake!
by Sushim on Aug 02, 2006 07:49 PM Permalink
it is fine yaar...that you had sex with already fifteen girls being single....but just think the other way...that your would be girlfriend/wife would be coming from the same background...and if someone gets the joy of promiscuity..it is really difficult to control/stop her...neither would you be able to trust her fully....ever.... now you would say that what is wrong if she has it too....or you don't care whatever she had before...man...sex is not only physical...the same fact would haunt you that your wife loves and cares so many people too as many she had sex with....that is a feeling....from which there is no escape....there is nothing special in having premarital sex...you can have it by paying money only....or going out with girls/boys like that....but the after effect is very terrible...when you get partner...you can never trust her totally....and that would give you a tremendous loneliness...make you feel constantly cheated.....which you can share with none....that's why people go for chastity...it is by choice that single people don't go for premarital sex...it is not lack of option which people like you think....
Why is everyone makin an issue that sex before marriage is bad. The truth is because people who dint get sex before marriage dont have an option rather that saying it not ok to have sex before marriage. They are like looser hypocrite people. Whats bad in having sex..im single and had sex with more than 15 girls and NO REGRETS ABOUT IT. I enjoyed it a lot.
I wonder what a hypocrite this author is.I would like to ask them : 1) Don't you ever feel hungry ? 2) Don't you ever feel thirsty ? 3) Do you wait for marriage to eat food to calm down your hunger ?? I mean this is really a baseless concept,cultivated in all backward regions in the world like South-Asia. Sex is just OK,no matter you are single or not.Its a necessity and those who do not feel its necessity should go to DOCTOR IMMEDIATELY.
I know marriage will bring responsibility,so I need to be prepared for that.But Sex is just cool. All you beautiful people out there,just enjoy life,no emotional hanky-panky.These emotional thinkings are not going to help you in life.
This is pertaining to the various discussions regarding sex before marriage. Iam amazed at why do we connect sex and marriage. That was relevant during an era of orthodoxy where for an ordianry man marriage was the only means of enjoying sex. I beleive why Sex cant be considered as merely an action for physical gratification ? everytime why bring marriage into the picture. This is the greatest mistake we do as marriage is something totally different. There might be a lot of people who do not want to get married or cnt get married for some reason other than biological. Does it mean that they can never have sex other than with prostitutes? This is the jinxed thought which most of the so called chaste thinking propogate. Sex is a good stress buster which becomes stress creator if it is linked with marriage. Instead of telling do not have sex ( which is against the law of nature) let us advise people to have safe sex.
Do it but don't get pregnant. It is better to have sex rather than getting an impotent spouse.Many people says if we have it before marriage the after marriage charm will be less. But I think sex also requires practice. The more you do the more you get the best of it.I repeat my first line - Do it but don't get pregnant and Do it when both agree.
