I can understand the pain and suffering a heartbreak causes..Its something which seems to tear one's life apart. I think the best way to forget is not merely to start looking at ways to please urself but ways to serve the ppl around us whom we've neglected...Strong faith in God is an amzing medicine for all types of hurts and sorrows. It's totally useless to drown urself in self pity and sorrow. Even if u've been jilted, the best thing to do is take it as an experience which strengthens you.. Each of us have great potential and capability...instead of wasting time moping around, u can put ur put ur powers to work and achieve wonders..Personally i wud suggest doing something for ppl who've suffered real tragedies in life. A sense of perspective is very important..There are ppl who've gone thru much more..so pick urself up, trust in God and serve Him. Remember, its not wat u get from life that counts but wat u give that matters.
this is the case of a guy who suffered heartbreak 4 years back when his girlfriend ditched him. The guy couldn't get over it for 1 whole year cos he really loved her passionately but that girl found a new guy within 2 months. After this he really hated girls and became a flirt and casanova. But then came for a moment when he met that special person in his life who really understood what was hiding behind that playboy...an innocent and committed guy who just wanted emotional support and understanding wavws. The wavelength he shared with her was just out of this world. Now he has completely forgotten his first love and is trying to get fully involved with this girl. She is the first person with whom he really can be himself...the girl who changed his life who accepted his past and brought him back to his present which he forgot how to live in long back. Hope they get married. Wish them luck!
yiurs was a really good article...actually i think that survivours in heartbreaks are the strongest ppl on earth...i mean its easier to get over with a physical injury...but when ur heart bleeds,the strongest of the strongest of ppl (who atleast show that they are) are not spared...i really think high of u now...n u have really learnt a lesson which only a few do in their lives hardik