I can understand the pain and suffering a heartbreak causes..Its something which seems to tear one's life apart. I think the best way to forget is not merely to start looking at ways to please urself but ways to serve the ppl around us whom we've neglected...Strong faith in God is an amzing medicine for all types of hurts and sorrows. It's totally useless to drown urself in self pity and sorrow. Even if u've been jilted, the best thing to do is take it as an experience which strengthens you.. Each of us have great potential and capability...instead of wasting time moping around, u can put ur put ur powers to work and achieve wonders..Personally i wud suggest doing something for ppl who've suffered real tragedies in life. A sense of perspective is very important..There are ppl who've gone thru much more..so pick urself up, trust in God and serve Him. Remember, its not wat u get from life that counts but wat u give that matters.