Tasleema, I sympathise and pity you... Times have taken such sad turns, where one has to live FREELY means: one should suppress his/her true feelings, freedom of expression, one should become a Hypocrite or Zee-Huzoor, praise all religiions and all politicians, ...and the way they (politicians, fundamentalists, MNCs, Land Lords, Big Industrialists) are discriminating people in the name of religion, caste, creed, reservations. So Tasleema, like other people, like other media, wear the 'sickular' (sic!) garb, join the mobs/crowds, become a crowd-puller and talk about the fancy gender issues, domestic violence, EIA, age old notions, rituals and so on...as it has become 'forbidden' (esp. countries like us) to utter about HUMAN VIOLENCE.