Our policy seems more to prevent enraging of dragon rather than engaging the dragon. Fear drives our foriegn policy vis-a-vis China...Congress has still not got over the humiliation in made India suffer 45 years back. India's policy must work on a tit for tat framework against all its enemies. We want to win - we have to become a Ponting not a Kumble. Polite losers has many fans but they have a miserable life.